I'm studying overseas, that means i am far away from my boyfriend. i havent seen him for the past 8 months. He sent me a text message yesterday and said "i would rather be a priest than have another girlfriend" Do you believe him? If you were in my shoes, how would you deal with long distance relationship?
2006-08-21 05:24:52 · 50 answers · asked by ωнєη уσυ ѕмιℓє уσυ мαкє мє ѕмιℓє 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It would completely depend on your boyfriend. Is your boyfriend religious by any chance? Next time you see him when you get back, surprise, he's a priest! lol Seriously, it's been said that absence makes the heart grow fonder. But then, on the opposite side of the coin, people do get lonely. He could suddenly hook up with someone there.
You're his girlfriend. You know him better than any of us here in Yahoo! Would you say he's loyal?
If I were in your shoes, I'd just take everything in stride. I wouldn't jump into the wrong conclusions. Time will tell. Whatever happens, you'll survive. You've got a good head on your shoulders. I can tell. Good luck on your studies!
2006-08-21 05:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by V for Viva 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He had been clear, is not willing to have a girlfriend. Haven't you ever had a little adventure, an acquittance, better than nothing in all these month?
I am married to the man whom I had a long distance relationship. Knowing how weak is the meat, after more than 6 months of very long phone calls, e-mails, etc I decided to go besides him till the situation could become more stable. Still waiting but at least we do not have problems of physiological temptation with somebody else till now. Never say never.
2006-08-21 05:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by Expat Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a long distance relationship also, and they do get hard. In relationships the most important thing is trust, and more so in a long distance one. However, there's nothing wrong with being suspicious every now and then, especially if you REALLY feel like something's going on. I've learned to trust my intuition. Just don't start accusing him of things all willy nilly; that's a sure way to make him WANT to cheat. You know? I wish you much luck in your relationship.
2006-08-21 05:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship is a myth. While I'm tempted to believe him on face value, it's really difficult for two people to grow their relationship while so far away. So, to answer your question, I believe him. How I would handle a long distance relationship - I wouldn't be in one.
2006-08-21 05:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a long distance relationship. Yes, he's banging other chicks. Trust me. Don't take that Text message lightly. Why else would he text you such an awufl and rude message? Better off without him. 8 months is a LOONNGG time
2006-08-21 05:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by VetteLeo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did do a long distance relationship. I went to school and when I was done. We were back together. Believe him now until he proves wrong. Good luck I hope you make it.
2006-08-21 05:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by surfer grl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..........by not dealing with them. Too many emotions+ too much distance= disaster for a lot of people. He might as well be a priest. Phone sex can only go so far.
2006-08-21 05:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by diaz276 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would hope for the best but I'd be realistic about it. I think you should believe him unless he's given you reason to think otherwise. In some cases, absence makes the heart grow fonder...just have faith...good luck in your studies:-)
2006-08-21 05:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by marlene p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I would pray . Thats all I could do . I would never be able to prove he was really faithful to me . So I would believe and pray , or worry and give up the relationship.
2006-08-21 05:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUE love will breech the gap. If you love him, and he loves you, find a way for him to get to you or vice versa.
If you don't love him, or believe that he can love you, (and don't jump to conclusions because he very well may), then I would tell him to move on and do the same.
2006-08-21 05:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋