My girl friend has guy friends, I just wonder if they look at her like a friend, or do they think sexual thoughts about her? I party with them too, but they are not my friends, just know them thru her.
2006-08-21 05:04:04 · 8 answers · asked by jrnellie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is possible for just a plutonic friendship to exsist between male and female. Speaking for myself, I know that I am not attracted to most of my guy friends and since they are all like brothers to me, there is no prospect of anything more than friendship there. HOWEVER I know that some of my guy friends want more than friendship with me, or started off with them persuing me than being turned into a friend. So, it can be both. But as long as you can trust your girlfriend to be faithful to you, it doesn't matter if they want her or not, you are the man that has her heart.
2006-08-21 05:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible! I'm speaking from personal experience, at my previous job I had a guy that I considered to be 1 of my best friends. This friendship went on for 5 years up until the very day I resigned from my job, and I still consider him as 1 of my best friends I just don't see him everyday like I did when I was working with him. In fact I hardly ever see him at all but he will always be my friend. For 1 thing he did'nt gossip about everyone, nor was he a trouble maker and backstabber like the female co-workers was! From day 1 when our friendship started the rumors started !!!! Oh my god everybody whispered that we were having an affair, and tried to turn the friendship into something dirty.But we just let people keep talking and assuming whatever they wanted too, because I refused to let a bunch of dirty minded people to ruin a great friendship with all thier rumors and gossiping and stares!!! I think the main problem with people that make something innocent into something dirty is they have very boring lives, and few or no true friends of thier own.
2006-08-21 06:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Texas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sure as hell do think sexual thoughts! I can gaurantee you that. But acting on them is another story. They should have respect for you bc you are going out with her. If they don't they NEED to be told to back the F**K up and show some respect. If they are guys, they are thinking of sex all the time. It's never cool to piss in another guys pool. good luck...
2006-08-21 06:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by cliffb52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there can be friendship between men and women without sex getting in the middle, but it depends very much on the persons as well. some can view the opposite sex as a friend some don't.
in what concerns your girlfriend it could be. you shouldn't worry because if she loves you she will think at them as only friends, and that is all that counts.
2006-08-21 05:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by IRI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is so possible that they don't even think about her in that way. me as a female in an all dominated male work place i just let the guys know that there is nothing between us and they just back off and I'm usually the only female on the job. so you really don't have to worry about it. as long as you know that she set things straight with her guy friends
2006-08-21 06:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by zadyroar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a guy and girl can be friends but I am a girl ask some guys.
2006-08-21 05:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so but my family always seem to think if I have a guy friend he my bf.it sucks
2006-08-21 05:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most guys, I would say no.
2006-08-21 05:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by mtndaydreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋