ok, so I met this one guy, and he was really extremely sweet and everything. Eventually he told me that he loved me, and I said it back because I do/did love him. After that things were going great until he started lying to me. First it was that he turned out to be younger and his name wasnt what he had told me before, he said that the info he had given me before was his older brothers....
Then.........he was 18, and still kept the name he had given me the first time he lied, Jason...he said that he wanted to see whether or not i was just wanting to be with him because of his age.
Then he went back to what he had told me the very first time we met, and changed his name back to what he had told me first.
Soon after I looked on his myspace and found out that he had a Fiancee (he had a picture of her up, saying that he loved her more than anything in the world) When I confronted him he said it was his sis trying to get this guy to leave her alone. Days later he said that he
2006-08-21 04:54:30 · 16 answers · asked by katie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
really was engaged to her (it wasnt his sis)...He said he was sorry, and to me it sounded like he really meant it.
He said that he had never met her before, because the ymet online. He also told me she was in a mental hospital. And he said that she had been in there for months..supposedly she was in there when they met online. Around a week ago, he told me she had come back home...he went to visit her.
He saod that she had cheated on him so many times and kept teling me how sick it was making him. His exwife an off with another guy as well, so why would he wanna be with that kinda person again?
A coupl of days ago, he said that he was just gonna screw around with her head, like she did wit hhim, and he said that he really loved me.
Last night, he called me and said he was going to stay with her because she was pregnant wit hhis child....I have no idea what to think of it anymore or what t odo....
Help!!!
2006-08-21 05:01:04 · update #1
sounds like too much drama- do you wanna spend your whole relationship wondering if he is telling the truth? he is playing head games with you- it's not up to him to "test" you- Think about it- it can only get worse from here
2006-08-21 05:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy definatley is not sure of his identity for 2 reasons
A)He works for the FBI and so he has to keep his identity a secret from terrorists
B)he is a jackass lier who is trying to have his way with girls.
so i would go with option B. and plus which sis would want to scare of some guy by making her brother pretend he was his fiancee. That is just sick.
2006-08-21 05:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by nick360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really? You seriously don't know what to do? This guy has some issues, and I don't mean relationship issues. I don't think it matters if he's sincere or not, or if he loves you or not, because any guy who would test you and screw with your head like that is a loser. He needs help.
2006-08-21 05:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Milana P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy smokes, it sounds like that fool doesn't know if he's coming or going, and wouldn't know the truth if it smacked him upside his dome. Be thankful you discovered his lying ways early on, and run as fast as you can in the opposite direction. Life is to short for nonsense like that.
2006-08-21 05:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, leave it alone. walk away, once the lies start rolling in like that, it never gets better. i thought it would w my ex, and it only got worse w al the lies, the drugs, girls, its always something. so, leave and walk away. in the long run, ull be happier not having to worry about all ths crap dude puts u thru. i know its hard, but say *** it. he'll change if he really wants to b w u.
2006-08-21 05:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kasey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk! if he were to love you(which he don't) he would be dumping his fiencee. He lies too so do you want a boyfriend that lies and cheats. I would never be able to gain his trust again. but you don't have to listen to me it is your choice and this is just mu opion.
2006-08-21 05:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by jamiesjammin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the hell away from him he is the one that needs to be in a mental home not his girlfriend/fiance/person he wants to mess with her head he is a looney
2006-08-21 05:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by laura m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him yesterday! He will continue to lie to you as long as you let him - let someone else worry about him for he is TROUBLE!@
2006-08-21 05:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him..Lying men are not worth your time!
2006-08-21 05:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by NMSherwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a mess and cannot be trusted. Let him go!
2006-08-21 05:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋