2006-08-21 04:36:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because mothers never think a Woman is good enough for their son and they always think you could or should be better than what you are. They mostly dont see their Sons faults but yours shine light a big light bulb in the dark.
I am lucky my Mother In Law is always on the side of the one that is morally or somehow right. She tells her son he is wrong as well as me. She takes us both and not just once side all the time.
2006-08-21 09:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is the daughter in law who is hateful to the mother in law. Thank goodness I get along well with my sons in law & my daughter in law. I got along great with both my mothers in law also. I kept remembering, they were the ones who raised the man I loved.
2006-08-21 04:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by mazell41 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they fear that the daughter-in-law will take away the son from them since mothers are extremely attached to their sons. Sooner or later they both get along so its okay. And daughter-in-laws dont like mother-in-laws because their husband always seems to listen to his mother. Hope that makes sense.
2006-08-21 04:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Puja N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think mother in laws are bad or don't get along. first it is hard for some people to get to know someone. My mother in law adores me. give her time to get to know you. Most mother in laws are really lovely women. Each individual is set in there own ways and they may clash some what but i still think in time both should come around and adjust.
2006-08-21 05:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mothers in law feel like the other woman is stealing their baby boy! The daughters feel like the inlaw is in the way.
Most of the time it is the husband that needs to cut off the cord.
2006-08-21 04:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get along fine with my mother-in-law, and I married her baby. She knows that I love him very much and that I do whatever I can to take care of him and our boys. My oldest son has a serious girlfriend that he is thinking about marrying, and I think she is very good for him and very sweet. Maybe these women are not secure with the relationships that they have with their sons and husbands.
2006-08-21 04:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Helen T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get along just great with my Mother in law. Maybe it helps that she lives 1000 miles away..oops...did i just say that...lol! Seriously, she is a nice woman and I love her to death and when we visit we get along just fine. Now, my sister in law, on the other...UGH, thats a whole different story!
2006-08-21 05:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first husband was a mama's boy. she would manipulate him by crying when she didn't get her way or when i wanted something different. when i told her in a private conversation that i didn't appreciate her doing that, she called together both her sons and her husband and told how mean i had been to her. needless to say, shortly after wards, we were on our way to divorce court. my current hubby is the total opposite. i love it! his mother only wants to see us on her terms. we can't just stop over even if we cal first. we have 2 children and she only sees them on major holidays and maybe two other times a year. she disgusts him that way. and the sad part is, we only live about 20 minutes away. she i a second grade school teacher. she doesn't understand children at all. what a shame.
2006-08-21 04:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by luvbuggies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does mother in lsaws almost never get along with son in law??? and father in law??? Don't like when they tells me what to do in my marriage with my wife?? and Often times I tell them to back off and It between me and my wife to think what best for our kids.
Often time I asked my wife to talk to them about this and she did. and now they been back off and They know if I don't like what to hear and I walked away and take my kids and wife home with me. and My wife would tell mother and father why do you do that.. though you learn something and you don't.. sometime my wife can't do anything about it and I never get mad at her and I remember my wife told me never make me chose over her family or me. I respect that alot... and I do listen so she knows that If I don't like it and I jsut go home. plain and simple smiling. We are married for 9 years and 2 kids and 3rd due in march 2007 and so I am used to it and I don't have to like them or love them or what ever it is. some days great, mostly no.
2006-08-21 05:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i get along with my daughter in law but my mom hate her and my son knows but i dont understand what the hatred is about i mean love its the way it is
2006-08-21 04:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋