2006-08-21 04:35:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as boyfriend is not such a big commitment as a husband. A Husband you take before God and promise to always love good and bad times. A Marriage is not supposed to be broke up over some dumb issue that a boyfriend may walk out on you or a Girlfriend. A Husband is supposed to be for life.
2006-08-21 09:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its harder to leave a husband because you are in a commited relationship. With a boyfriend, you are not so you dont feel any guilt or anything if you leave and move on. You once felt something for your husband that goes deep, and its hard to just forget that. Divorces are always a bit hard, but if it feels right, then its worth it.
2006-08-21 04:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by timberly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to let go of a boyfriend because the feelings are based more on "in love" and not "love". You may not have a stong comittment to the person, may not live with them and don't feel compelled to stay with them.
When you marry someone, you commit yourself to that person. You move in together, and build a life together. You end up loving that person and realize what love is all about. It's hard to give up on that. Especially when you share things, such as a house, a car, etc. They are more your other half than a boyfriend.
2006-08-21 07:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leaving a boyfriend is a personal issue. Leaving a husband is a legal one.
2006-08-21 04:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to leave a boyfriend because he's just a boyfriend and a husband is a husband, you had plans to spend the rest of your life with this man and because it was a ordain by God.
2006-08-21 04:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ipsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not that hard to answer thgis becaus e boyfriend and girlfriend just if they don't work out great move on.
Marriage is a bigggest issue to make sure it need to be worked out and will be with same person for next 70 years and would you be tired of that person or what? I learned that My ex girlfriend back then. I broken up with her my fault, because I am not so used for her being so nice to me and show the true love to me. whoa that blew me away. so made the biggest mistakes took me 5 long years to have her back in my life and she did and knew she is my first and last and got married and still happy and 2 kids and 3rd dude in march 2007 and married for 9 years and I remember getting so pissed off and walked out the door and I heard my daughter said no daddy!!! but good for 2 mins driving around I have no where to go and I married this woman and I am not going to lose her again other 5 years.
I learn everyday to work it out and I truly enjoy to have her in my life and Found person love for me. Than any Mom, Dad, Sister ever loved me. They don't care about me at all. smiling. I have Kids to share with my daughter is 3 and son is 2 and they sure teach me Love. My son come to me and said daddy I love you .. whoa! and my daughter i said why you sitting next to me?? she said Becasue I loveyou daddy. Made me the best husband and father in the world smiling.
Yeah Marriage is serious and already made life and kids and why would I want to throw it away for what? but boy friend and girlfriend it so easy to break up and move on .. plain and simple.
2006-08-21 05:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are in a legally and emotionally committed relationship. When you married, you gave each other a part of yourselves that you never gave anyone else before. Aside from all the legal issues, you have to deal with the emotional separation. Even if you are not getting along with each other, it is sometimes hard to ignore the things you have shared.
2006-08-21 05:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you made a promise to stay together forever, and when you or him cannot keep that promise, it makes you feel guilty, like you failed in some way. Even though there are several legitimate reasons to get divorced, you still always have the hope it will last forever.
With a boyfriend, you have no such vows.
2006-08-21 04:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by muslimah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lawyers, and with a boyfriend, you're not married or anything, so it's easy to just walk out.
2006-08-21 04:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by ☼ becki ☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer for the b/f is your not bound by marriage. just walk away. it easier. as for a husband you are more than likely stronger feelings between the to of you and the marriage certificate.
2006-08-21 05:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋