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How would you respond if your husband began fantasizing with you about a threeway...with another man. Nothing between the males, just you with him and another guy? Remember, just fantasy. If it were fun, would you go further?

2006-08-21 04:13:07 · 17 answers · asked by whudda 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

17 answers

Fantasy is a wonderful thing, My husband and I use fantasy all the time and our sex life is out of this world, we would not take it any further because that might come between us, at least with fantasy we know that it is just us who are touching each other.

2006-08-21 04:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by twinki 2 · 0 0

having a fantasy is okay. No matter how crazy it might seem.
I have a weird fantasy too. But I'd never act on it. Fantasies are so for a reason.
I knew a woman that acted on her fantasy of being in a gang bang. Needless to say, she quit her job and hated herself for it.
Once that line is crossed between fantasy & reality, there is no going back.

2006-08-21 11:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by 4 · 1 0

I woul;dnt let it go any farther than fantasy! Fantasies are fine, but living them out could ruin your marriage. People go into these situations knowing that they will be fun and exciting but in the end someone feels left out/ no longer attractive/ used/ hurt. Don't worry about the fantasy but sont let it get out of hand!

2006-08-21 11:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by deet deet 3 · 0 0

I've done it. At first I was uncomfortable but if you let that feeling go, it's amazing. The thing is though it can get complicated and very quickly. Your hubby could get jealous and insecure or the other guy may want it, but without the hubby. I may cause more tension than it was worth. Would I do it again? No. Yes, it was amazing but not almost losing my marriage for.

2006-08-21 11:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0 0

I can tell you I am male and My wife and I know that we love eachother so much that we don't want to have no one in our bed. I mean Men should have fantasizing while girlfriend and boyfriend but they don't do that until married. they don't know wha tmarriage is about it mean man and woman only two no one else. I never want to share with no one only me and my wife. I am so damn selfish with my wife and she does it with me too. I rather to have fanasizing with my wife and me at lost island, in car, everything just between me and her.

Again I wouldn't think it will be fun or would go further becasue really, sad to see that. Wish you luck...

2006-08-21 12:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0 0

No I think a marriage is between a man and a women only. You are breaking the vows that you spoke in front of God and your family. I would not do it. Your husband should only want you to be with him. It is odd that he would want to share you with someone else. My husband wouln't want another man touching me.

2006-08-21 11:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Allie 2 · 0 0

I think it is a hot fantasy but im not sure about going any further than fantasy. I know guys like to brag so im sure if your hot in bed he wants everybody to know.

2006-08-21 11:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by kim 2 · 0 0

Hi,
I have been married for 5 years, for me if my husband mentioned the word anther guy in bed fantasy or not it will turn me off sexually from him, and emotionally also I will completely shut down. Also I will start having droughts about his sexual preference

2006-08-21 11:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dove4ever 4 · 0 0

Done it, and it was awesome...Very uncomfortable at first, but awesome once I got over feeling uncomfortable..A couple has to have a certain type of bond between them to be able to do it and it not cause problems..We have our share of problems, but NONE of them have come from that fantasy turned reality!

2006-08-21 12:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Shell 3 · 0 0

Let me tell yah... 2guys..the way to go...but then he would want to do the 2 girls thing...*sigh*..but yeah do the 3 way with the guys.. you'll LOVE IT

2006-08-21 11:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by licking_the_wallpaper 2 · 0 0

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