many women asking about pregnancy symptoms on here (when those can be easily looked up or tested) are really asking for companionship and or fellowship.
Women, do you ever offer supportive email to such women? If not, have you considered it?
I am sure many, especially single mothers, could use the support from other women who have experienced pregnancy.
-j.
2006-08-21 04:09:44 · 13 answers · asked by classical123 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes, it's really a question.
And I don't know if they're getting support through private emails - that's one thing I was trying to find out with my question.
2006-08-21 04:18:13 · update #1
I think you're right in some respect. Sure, symptoms can be looked up, but it also good to talk other women to see what their symptoms/experiences have been. You see "fatigue" but it's helpful to know what this means, slightly tired or "I can hardly keep my eyes open". I realize it's not going to be the same for all women, but it's still helpful to know what others have experienced. As far as testing goes, many women experience pg symptoms before they test positive and when you've got breast tenderness, fatigue, etc., you want to know what's going on and if you really could be pregnant. Of course, no one should assume they are or aren't pregnant based on others' accounts on this site.
I have never been pregnant before (I come to this category because I am trying to get pregnant and have done a ton of research about conceiving and pregnancy and I figure I might be able to help people to some degree), so I've never offered to E-mail anyone regarding pregnancy before. There are a number of wonderful groups online that women can join regarding pregnancy or a number of other topics and they can get support there. I myself belong to about 4 groups on Yahoo! and have learned an incredible amount in just a few months.
2006-08-21 04:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by tn80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'm a member of a message board that is filled with other pregnant women due at the same time as I am. That's a big help to me.
But the reason that I answer questions on here is because I want to help people. That's why I don't bother answering questions that I think are just for shock value or are just plain dumb questions.
I'd be glad to email any woman who wanted a pregnancy friend. I think a lot of times pregnancy makes women feel alienated from her non-pregnant friends, so anytime you can find a sympathetic ear it makes you feel a little less alone.
2006-08-21 14:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by braks_gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't offer support for these women. You're correct: There are probably 10,000 pregnancy sites on the www that have pregnancy symptoms ranging from very early pregnancy (before missed period) all the way to early labor symptoms.
When someone comes here with a question like, "I have cramps and sore breasts and I'm tired. Am I pregnant.?" I generally skip over them. I used to reply with something smart, but I stopped doing that because I'm tired of them.
I do offer support for unusual pregnancy questions. For example, a lady posted a question several days ago about cysts during pregnancy. I experienced this, so I answered her question. She sent me a private message and I wrote back. I'll gladly offer someone like that help and support. But not the people who come here with ridiculous symptoms that could signify any number of conditions/diseases.
If someone wants moral support, they should stay so.
2006-08-21 14:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good question. I wish I could find somebody to talk to and help with what I don't understand with pregnancy and kids. The role models I have in real life are honestly very bad parents and I won't take advice from them, just because I have seen how they raise their kids. If I knew more, I would definitely be supportive of someone in confusion, but like I said I'm kind of in need of it.
2006-08-21 11:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Chelle's Belle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been pregnant twice and each time has been totally different. Therefore, the female body can be very confusing - even for us women. I do believe a lot of women are looking for answers (and it's not that easy to find by doing a google search).
Also, when you are ttc, that two weeks waiting between ovulation and your next cycle can be hell, so your mind can be playing tricks on you. Sometimes it helps to get a second opinion from others.
2006-08-21 11:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those who are pregnant who ask these questions (and the way it's asked) makes me wonder if they should've gotten pregnant in the first place.
then those who reply...
over all i feel bad for the children.
and another thing, how do you know they're not getting support through private emailings? (assumingly so that is.)
2006-08-21 11:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We women need support, since men dont give us any, wwe ask other people, it makes us feel better
2006-08-21 11:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by aimeemay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that;s a great idea. maybe even a web-site for those women. there sure is plenty of them! Great idea. I'll work on that.
2006-08-21 11:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly_lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Made a point
2006-08-21 11:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you, i think its a place for women to share their experiences hopefully without being judged
2006-08-21 12:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋