they say to be a man is not easy, so should i take the easy way out and remain a boy?

Answer 1

Actually,part of being a man is never letting go of the boy inside the man.We need to be in touch with the boy side to be able to play.It's a delicate balance between maturity and childish wonder and play that make us who we are.The boy inside the man is what women complain about but also attracts them to us at the same time.
Sure you can take the easy way out,but I don't think to many women will be attracted to you.I guess in the end it's all about what makes you happy.Myself,I try to balance the two the best way I know how.

Answer 2

"Good G-d new skoolooks! I know you know what ya gotta do. I have actually seen some men that attempt to do that ... and especially some women that will.
Well let's see, if you remain the boy, your parents are gonna get tired of seeing you around the house after a good amount of years, not to mention feeding you. When the girls you knew as a boy grow up into their teens, they will recognize the fact that you never grew up! Oh man! Other boys you knew, as a boy, grew up and drifted away from you because they continued to mature and you didn't (mentally).
Everyone who grows around you will be able to recognize you as a mentally challenged person. You will have issues that your age and maturity will not reconcile. You will never be a daddy unless you rape some girl with an IQ of 10, and if you do we'll have to change the law so we can execute you (I'm not paying your room and board for the next 60 years).
Let me see ... do I need to go on?"

Answer 3

Sounds to me as though you are worried about an AFC culture.

It's not easy being a man because of the work you must put in. It's worse being a boy, because of the work that is thrown in your face.

It is far easier to be a man, than it is to remain a boy.

A man can feed himself, a boy must work for others and only hope to be fed.
A man can work on his own, a boy is told what to do, whether he likes it or not.
A man has choices in life, a boy does not.

Answer 4

The easy way is not always the best way. At some point, you will need to take care of yourself by being a man.

Answer 5

Hello Peter Pan, unfortunately there is no way out! Hold your head up high and accept adulthood like the man you are. Start as you mean to go on - work out some principles to stand by when times get tough - pick yourself up- dust yourself off and start all over again!

Trying to hold on to boyhood will lock your energy up - you will miss new experiences, you will most likely be seen as eccentric by others and you might lose touch with reality. Do you want to be like Michael Jackson is now?

Answer 6

Umm, no. When you get really old...they say you will revert back to being a child anyways. The whole point of growing up is being able to have choices and be independent. Ya it is more work but more rewarding. Plus, girls don't want a boy they want a man.

Answer 7

To be a boy in a man's world is even harder. Just take the natural step and grow into a man.

Answer 8

Remember the boy is the father to the man.

Answer 9

Its not for you to chose.Probably you one day realize your a man and thats that.Many try to reach manhood out of boyish state but youll get there only once you realised the woman in you AND having peace with her.

Answer 10

We all have to play grown-ups.Make good decisions with women,jobs,and education and you'll have a much easier time as a good decent man.Sounds like you have a good start by asking important questions.Good Luck