They want me to break up with him cause he is a big guy 430. and i am 135 but he treats me why better than the skinner losers i had he is real sweet i have know problem with how big he is my friends say he is a nice guy but have problems with his size. but he lose some cause we walk alot. what do you think. i am not leaving him.
2006-08-21 03:54:43 · 32 answers · asked by how much 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friends are young and immature. Often the guys who aren't as handsome as others are the best boyfriends because they do appreciate their girlfriend. Pretty boys are used to having women fall all over them, and they tend to treat all women like garbage.
Definitely stick with this guy. You'll feel like a queen, and, since you're smart enough to look past physical appearance, you deserve the treatment. When your friends complain about his weight, just ignore them and tell stories about the wonderful things your boyfriend does for you.
All of that being said, you should help him do something about his weight only for his health. Walking is about the only exercise someone that big can handle, so keep doing that. When the pounds start to disappear, he may become encouraged to make other changes (diet, different exercise or additional walking) in order to lose weight faster.
Stick with it. Good guys are hard to find.
2006-08-21 04:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-07 20:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, bump that mess that your friends are talking. If you don't have a problem with the size of your man, then they should just back off. I would, however, be concerned with your man's weight for health reasons because that weight is unhealthy. You could encourage him by exercising with him and eating healthier foods with him. If he treats you well and you are happy, enjoy him and your new relationship. This is your life. Real friends know that you can't choose another friend's mate. Real friends show their concern then get out of the way for you to live and if you need them, they are there for you to depend on. Also, your friends sound vain. If the only problem that they have with your BF is his weight, they need to grow up. You could get with a gorgeous, fine, mean, low-down, lying, cheating, violent but slim guy and be miserable. They may be too shallow to recognize genuine goodness. Just do your thing and don't worry about them.
2006-08-21 04:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are happy with this guy your friends should respect that. Real friends should only be concerned about you a guy you are dating if he is treating you badly, and from what it sounds like this is not the case, so don't listen to any shallow criticisms. Keep up the walking with him, thats great you are helping him to lose weight! Weighing 430 is definitely not good for his health.
2006-08-21 04:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u made d right decision not 2 leave him. Looks doesn't matter it is d qualities that ur bf possess. Stay with him and let no one change d way u feel about him. He is ur true companion and everything u want ur guy 2 be. He is d one and he loves u so love him back. Your friend they don't want good 4 u they want u only to look great with a slim guy but in reality it doesn't matter how d guy looks. Ur friends will always be getting hurt in life because they want looks and not qualities that reallly matter
2006-08-21 04:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're not being truthful because you asked. plain and simple. are you going to go on thinking how great you are for going out with this BODY in question, so what, i'm 125. it is inside, you are right about that part,why are ya'll walking so much, for his health or is he such a good guy that he wants to look better for you. love him as he is. your friends can gain weight at any given moment in life, so forget their thoughts. how do you really feel, hope you don't feel big hearted just because he's big. big or small( if all were really known in your head and in his). he might be in his glory ,for having you, just as you are in letting him have you, and that's all wrong. God puts you where you deserve to be. go run with that imfo. goodluck,i do hope it's a Godsent...
2006-08-21 04:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends to back off and leave you to be happy. If this guy treats you with respect and you enjoy your moments together, then I'd keep him. Love doesn't come with size restrictions and your friends should know that.
2006-08-21 04:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the group of plastics and do what you want. Is he really 430 pounds? I mean, I'm not judgmental of size, but that could be a health risk for him. :)
2006-08-21 04:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl dont let yo friends ruin your life maybe they jealous because there bf doesnt treat them like yours do weight is not the problem if theyre yo friend they should be happy because u are happy and n e ways yo friend dont have to date him u do and if u let yo friends make the decisions about yo bf then how does that make u look so maybe u should think about y yo friends want u to break up with him and y they so worried about how much he weigh its all left up to u but i say stay with him because he might have feelings for u and u might miss out on something special messing around with yo friends.
2006-08-21 04:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by jasmin g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends are basing this solely on his outward appearance, that is pretty shallow. If they don't like how he treats you, that would be different. Tell them he makes you happy, and that should be what they want for you. & keep on walking! That is great for your health, and gives you a special time to talk & get to know each other better, too.
2006-08-21 04:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglynnie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋