he is a senior at john hope and im a sophmore hes about to graduate and he is going away to college in california and he asked me to go i love him and i dont want to lose him wat should i do?
2006-08-21 03:54:25 · 24 answers · asked by jasmin g 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
dont move in WITH him...just move to a place NEAR him
2006-08-21 04:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sultana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is difficult to figure out . . . how would you support yourself? He cannot support you, as it costs a LOT to go to college! Even if your parents send you $2,000 or $3,000 a month to cover your living expenses now, how are you going to go to college when the time comes?
You cannot build your life around another person, even a great boyfriend. This time in your life is very busy, as you must figure out what you are going to do with your life after you finish high school, and you also must focus on getting through high school.
Maybe this is okay for you two to be apart for a while. Let him write letters to you, and visit on the holidays. Perhaps you can visit him there at college after he's had a chance to settle in.
Good luck!
2006-08-21 04:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't move. you are both way too young to making those kind of choices. Sure you love him, but honestly do you think that at your age you will never love again. You really have no clue what kind of responsibility it takes to be an adult. Enjoy high school, apart from college its the best time of your life. If you try to grow up too fast you will live to wish you stayed in school.
2006-08-21 04:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stay home and finish school, living in California is expensive and you'd never make it on a minimum wage job which is all you are BARELY qualified for in California.
2006-08-28 19:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him for 5-6 months and if you still feel you want him then go and join him
2006-08-21 04:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean im pretty sure that ur parents are taking care of you now so if u move with him will he be able to take care of the two of you please dont go because u are to young stay in school because if u move with him then u have to depend on him girl never have to depend on him never depend on him yes i said it twice i mean everything is going good now then u two move in all hell is going to break loose
2006-08-28 19:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by 2 THICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are going to lose him if you don't move in with him... then you need to think over the relationship and NOT move in together
2006-08-28 15:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents shouldn't they have a say.your only 16 or 17 thats crazy to move in with him you probably don't even have a job.you should finish high school and then see if you want to still move there with him.
2006-08-21 04:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by GINA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not much of a man yet if he's asked you to put aside your youth and education. Get your own education and then if it's meant to be, you'll be together in the future.
Peace.
2006-08-26 18:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by funigyrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go please.I beg you. I had the same thing in my life and I went. Then he left me. I had bad relationship with my parents after that. I couldn't finish schoo. Trust me, don't go with him.
2006-08-28 14:09:39 · answer #10 · answered by murzilka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't move - but i can see that's the american style - what does your parents think?? do you have peace to move with him?? are yo ready, don't have a big expectation of what your life is gonna be with your bf sometimes is not what we think,, at least.. finish high school..!!
2006-08-21 04:03:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋