How do I brake the news to my girlfriend to tell her that i'm calling it quits, and i know longer want to be her boyfriend.?
2006-08-21 03:50:13 · 16 answers · asked by IAN s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The way you break up with someone depends on how long you have been with them. Its harder for both of you the longer you are together. Its best to do it when you are both together and say exactly how you feel. Don't do it by phone or other ways like that, do it to her face and that shows you respect her feelings too. If you want to stay friends with her, make sure you tell her that. When you are breaking up with her don't blame everything on her else she will just be angry and never want to see you again, be gentle. Break up with her how you would want someone to do it to you.
2006-08-21 04:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetcheeks16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man is this ever a hard issue to deal with. Let me ask u this first. Does the thought of breaking her heart scare u? If it does well I'd think about it first and try to talk to her about what's wrong and work it out. She'd maybe still be your gf and love you even more for being straight up with her. If not well I'd be straight up and tell her it's not working out and be honest why. Sure she'll be heart broken but if she really loves you she'll thank you for being honest. If she's not that type be ware she may slap you silly. Any way it goes good luck.
2006-08-21 10:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't do it on the phone. Meet in a public area that usually people won't yell or raise their voice. Just be honest, tell her the reason why. She will either say that she's glad that you said something first because she didn't want to hurt your feelings, or respect you for having the the balls to be a man and tell the truth.
2006-08-21 11:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't brake you girlfriend, she's not a car!!! But if you want to break up with her that is a different story.
2006-08-21 10:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you have grown apart from her and that you dont feel the same way as you did before. Hopefully you are breaking up with her because of that.
2006-08-21 10:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her face to face. Just don't be mean about it. She's going to hurt if she cares about you and she'll probably cry so the best thing to do is go see her and make it quick.
2006-08-21 11:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by celinallll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like u said it
2006-08-21 10:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by sazzybmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bone her best mate, she will get the message
2006-08-21 11:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by Ichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. you might hurt her a little, but you cant really help it. shell probably get over it soon. give her a reason, and she shouldnt get too mad.
2006-08-21 10:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by ily ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her and make wild love to her
when yhou are finished get dressed and tell her that you are breaking up and it is time for her to leave
2006-08-21 10:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋