Would you go out and act bad or stay at home and do what you need to do? becaue yall live together?
2006-08-21 03:49:18 · 5 answers · asked by that_girl11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If our relationship was strong and faithful prior to my guy going out of town, I would stay in and live my life as normal by going to work, exercising, spending time with my family and female friends, and reading. I would not jeopardize a good relationship by going out and acting bad when my man is out of town. If this is my guy and it's all good between us, I know that I can act bad as I want to with my man when he comes back home. I prefer to get down and dirty with my man in our own private places. That out on the town, random partying has never been my scene and now that I am in my 30s, I certainly wouldn't want to start that now. I believe that a good relationship is hard to find and even harder to maintain, so if I had one, I would cherish it and never do anything to purposely damage it.
2006-08-21 03:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how much the 2 people love/care about each other. If you live together then you(not meaning you directly) should not be going out and screwing around! If thats what one wants to do then why does the relationship exist to begin with?? I just moved w/ my boyfriend of 3 years when he got a job out of town and he travels every week (i know its not 2 months at a time but...) he leaves sun. night and gets in late thur. night. and since thats part of his job I know it will never change. It is hard but it can work!
2006-08-21 11:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself would NEVER date a man who had to travel for work. My man has gone to jail almost every year we have been together (5 1/2 yrs.) with a minimum of 30 days and a max. stay of 5 mnths in prison,I have remained faithful everytime.I expect the same however wouldn't even put myself in the situation where I had to trust someone for extensive periods away.Men think with the wrong head....
2006-08-21 11:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by xaviersmother2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop him/her from leaving, if it's about his/her work. It's going to be a little hard since you live together, but you'll get used to it. My dad is a sailor, and he used to be away for 3, 4, even 6 months at a time... it was pretty rough for everyone, especially for my mom and him, but it all worked out fine.
Just do the things you usually do, or the things you were doing when you were living alone.
Invite some of your friends for dinner, or go out with them. There's nothing wrong with hanging out with your friends when he/she is out of town.
2006-08-21 11:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by miraob86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, do what I need to do , if the person acted bad while they were apart then you didn't trust that person in the first place! Ergo, you don't love each other and your looking for trouble!
2006-08-21 11:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by unohu54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋