ok, my friend Anne talks to me about everything, or atleast most of the time,but when she hangs around this other girl that is a really popular person and i try to talk to her ( anne ) she ( anne ) just ignores me like im just another brick in the wall! but then if that person leaves she starts talking to me like we never stopped talking in the first place...what should i do !
2006-08-21 03:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by indianschick24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok i thought id put this on here and see if she's apologising, or just faking it?......
Me: can i ask you something?
Anne: sure
Me: ok, why is it when you hang around with sarah, you ignore me and pretend like im just another brick in the wall? but then when she leaves you start talking to me like she was never there ??
Anne: i noticed i do that n im really sorry
Anne: i dunno.. i cant stand sarah right now n i dont know why i do that to you but im reeeeeeeeeeeallly sorry!! n i hope your not mad at me even tho i understand if you are
Anne: i dont have a answer for your question let alone a good one...
2006-08-21 03:39:57 · update #1
That is what they call clicks in school.. there is the popular clicks like she wants to hang out in .. and there is the next level where the most of us fit in and then i guess you kids would call the later click would be the geeks or the really smart people.
How i dealt with the clicks in school was to hang out with all of them , then you have friends everywhere when your friend decided to be snooty.. you will always have lots of friends and if she is just trying to fit in with the one group of click she will limit her friends don't worry about her being your friend. because she is. she is just afraid that she won't fit in with the ones that she thinks is important right now.. and will soon find out that you are the better friend of them all. hang in there And tell her how she is making you feel you said you guys could talk about everything.. talk to her..
2006-08-21 03:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a true friend, she chooses popularity over u. Don't worry about her show her that u r not like her and u speak 2 her when she speaks 2 u. Just remember that popularity only last 4 a while but the wonderful qualities that u possess will last 4 ever. When u get the chance tell her ur feelings and if she doesn' try and change then she is not a true friend, then sbhe can just become ur acqauintance. True companions are rare to find these days but hey ur best friend is ur worst enemy.
2006-08-21 03:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like this and I just found another friend who did not disrespected like this.I know that she is your friend but this is rude and she thinks she is cool and this other girl is popular and your friend thinks that your not popular or good enough to be around her when this other girl is and this is not fair to you at all and it really hurts you i know been there done this and it took me a while to realize that there are other people out there who will think and know I'm a great person.You will be just fine and what you have to do is meet new people and if you have another friend or someone you just have another class with then start talking with them .You seem like a warm caring person and your friend will come back around when she sees that you have other people you talk with and this shows her that she is not the only one who has other people ...You seem like a warm friendly person with confidence and that darlin will get you allot of great friends take care...
2006-08-21 03:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by kutiepye28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i'm telling you like this just forget about her and just think when you were asking her that question she couldn't even give you a straight forward answer about it. And think of it this way was she really sorry like she said she was or just wanted you to get off her back. Just rigth there you can tell that she's being fake you gotta leave her it's like how do you know if she's going to tell you that same thing again.
2006-08-21 06:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to be she's not a true friend..........
Find you someone else you can truly call your TRue Friend, and when she starts asking questions of the way you are treating her, just tell her about that other girl and how that makes you feel when they are together and if she is a true friend she will consider your feelings but if she seems to to blow it off.........she's not a true friend after all...........
2006-08-21 03:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by SexeyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, cause a real friend wouldnt diss you like that just to talk to another person.
2006-08-21 03:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you did talk to her about it and confront her. Maybe she noticed it and wants to fix it and help your relationship better. Hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-21 04:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants to put you on the sidelines and not in the game you should do as she does you: ignore her! real friend or popular friend she's hurting your feelings and she needs to be taught a lesson
2006-08-21 03:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by Marty Johnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she(anne) is a very crule n u even don be foolish jus go up to her n tell her that if she wants ur friendship she hasto be better or if i were in ur place i shoud jus go n tell her good byeeee
2006-08-21 03:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Sophia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her know how you feel about how she is treating you. If she is you real friend she wouldn't ac like that and she would introduce you to her new friend.
2006-08-21 03:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by laugh_a_lot2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋