she being much younger to me , she is very proudy nd arrogent but still i loved her, after whatever she said to me i wrote a letter to her telling all her negitives nd what others think about her, i m not able to forget her also as i feel i still love her as our bonding was different. i m upset how to make her realise her mistake, though i hve come to know that she is also missing me a lot. how to get this ice broken
2006-08-21 03:09:54 · 19 answers · asked by misty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
writing a letter to her and letting her know all the negative things about her and also what people think of her wasn't to wise. I would have written the letter and used words like "I feel" and "I care", because what you have done is basically insulted her. I am not sticking up for her bad behaviour but things can be put in different ways so that people will understand instead of feeling attacked.
2006-08-28 07:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think everything she said is nonsense then she can't talk to you anymore.
If you had an open mind and considered what she said instead of telling her all the negative thoughts you had and your friends had maybe she could forgive you for whatever pissed her off.
You know why she got mad but won't accept the blame because you are too arrogant and frankly quite stupid.
If you insist it's all her fault then she can't forgive you. You don't understand her and don't want to so let her be.
YOU have to realize YOUR mistake but I think you already went to far with the negative letter. Again very stupid.
If you're lucky she might have thrown out the letter without reading it. If she read it she won't go back to you.
Being older doesn't make you wiser.
2006-08-21 10:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey....... just relax. u can still make up a bond with her
call her to a place without letting her know that's u
then give her a surprise by giving her all wht she likes
praise her infront of others
and then when she starts understanding u she will herself feel sry
u need not do anything
hope this will help u out
if no then contact me on girls_cool_rock@yahoo.co.in
i will suggest u some other ways also
All The Best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and dont worry :-)
2006-08-25 22:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Adi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and tell her all the things negative about her, tell her the things you enjoy and miss about her. If there is anything you said to hurt her apologize. If shes really your friend, she just needs a little time to cool off. Don't give up, friendship is a powerful thing and true friends never part
2006-08-21 10:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usual to have misunderstandings in friendships so don't take these matters in heart. I'll say that you must make a good approach with her by speaking openly which will clear all your misunderstandings & doubts.I think this is one of the way to get that ice broken!............
2006-08-26 05:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by hots! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she'll realized her mistakes she might call you. Otherwise, try to call her, anyway you two are still friends. Just forget and forgive because if no one will do the first move the differences will never patch up. 'Till your friendship totally ruined because of pride.
2006-08-27 17:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by lhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basics always say "SORT IT OUT LIKE A MAN" just talk to her someway or the other....If u r feeling shy then send her an e-mail or an e-card or may be a good joke thru sms or by mail....That's da dose for her illness.
2006-08-26 09:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by Wolverine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take initiative with cool mind. You may be put to awkward situation but if you are committed, you will overcome this.
Don't mind but with the kind of additional details you have given about her and yourself ( what you wrote to her!!) it appears that both of you need a re-think about your friendship, its ground and its present and future.
All the best.
2006-08-21 11:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by helpaneed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u too utter some nonsense so that she feels that u r angry then she will come on the ryt track n speak to u show that u r no more wanting to speak to her u will get lots like her
2006-08-21 10:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you cannot change some people to understand.
You cannot maintain one way friendship.
Try once more.
If she ignores you, leave her to her destiny, for the better.
Remember this:
"Be courteous to all, make friendship with few, try those few well and give them your confidence".
2006-08-26 07:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋