You are planning to go to visit your sister at her house. You are going at the morning and coming home before evening. You want your 14 year old daughter to go with you and she says she doesn't want to because she hates your sister's house and hates her kids because her house is dirty and her kids are not as smart as her. She is planning to stay home for the day. She tells you that she doesn't want to talk or see your sister's kids forever and that they are boring people. How would you feel here? Would you make your daughter go with you or no? Why? She finish 8th grade and is going to high school soon.
2006-08-21 03:06:58 · 10 answers · asked by youngwoman 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WHO THE BOSS IS SHE OR YOU
2006-08-21 03:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by do it good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disappointed in her because how does your daughter know if her feelings about your sister not going to change, if she start going around her doing things with her and her childrens. I would sit down and have a long talk with her and let her know who is the true boss. She has to realize that is your sista house and your sista is going live how she feels is Ok to her. At this time I wouldn't make her but i will give her a lecture and let her know she is going to come with you more often, she never know what she may need from them.
2006-08-21 10:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your 14 year old daughter talk about her aunt like that. That's what's wrong with kids these days. They think they can treat anyone any way they want. Make her go with you. Make her take her cousins for a walk. Make her babysit them while you enjoy your visit with your sister. Tell her when she is 18 she can decide whether or not to visit her aunt.
2006-08-21 10:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel bad she felt that way about my sister and sister's family. Though she has a right to her own opinion, she needs to learn that sometimes we do things we don't want to. Part of becoming a proper young lady is being respectful of her elders and dealing with uncomfortable situations. If she insists on staying home anyway, don't hesitate to turn on the mother's guilt full bore.
2006-08-21 10:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by auld mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says that she is smarter than them! My aren't we on our high horse!!! No, I would not make her go because she will make you miserable but I would make her stay with grandmom or someone that I thought she would not have the best time with!!! I think you need to talk to your daughter about why she thinks she is better than others, she sounds like a little brat to me!!
2006-08-21 10:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by majesticwife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter needs to respect people even if she doesn't think they are as bright as she. Everyone is gifted in different ways. Family is important as is humility. One day is very little to ask and if it would please you, she should go and smile and do her best to be nice.
2006-08-21 10:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by vegmaleah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your Daughter is a little stuck-up. (no offense)
I would make her go and get to know them better. She needs to learn that we are all created equal and no one is better than anyone else. From what you say she doesn't sound like she's smarter than anyone . PLEASE... teach that girl some respect and common decency before its to late.
2006-08-21 10:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray that I wont have such a naughty gurl as my daughter.
2006-08-21 10:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL SHE IS ENTITLED TO HER OPINION, BUT AT 14 IT DOESN'T COUNT AND SHE HAS NO SAY IF SHE GOES OR NOT. AS THE PARENT THAT IS YOUR DECISION.
2006-08-21 10:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull your sox up woman! nuff sed
2006-08-21 10:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by monaUK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋