I am a crossdresser and I like to wear girls clothes. I am also straight and can be very macho too. I feel comfortable in tight jeans or I can put on that little black dress, hose and heels for that special occassion. I have never done this, but wondered how you would handle it if a guy you were dating showed up wearing a mini skirt, blouse, pantyhose, heels, makeup and wig. And he really looked hot. Would you invite him and treat him like a lady, or shut door in his pretty face? I really need to know!
2006-08-21 03:04:14 · 15 answers · asked by Sissy Jeff 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Thanks ladies for answers. Now I understand why guys can not be themselves around their woman and why they hide things from them. Or why so many guys cheat on their ladies and go to other, more compassionate women!
2006-08-21 03:48:29 · update #1
I WOULD FALL OUT LAUGHIN....CAUSE THEN I KNOW HE HAS A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR, AND INVITE YA IN
2006-08-21 03:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhm...honestly dude I will only be able to appreciate it if I myself is into cross-dressing as well. I am a straight guy and so far, I never had any inclination towards wearing girls clothes, or that little black dress, or even hose and heels for that special occasion.
I have nothing against your being a cross-dresser but you see, if other guys here are in the same situation as you are, then by all means perhaps you could be operating on the same wave length.
Otherwise, I am more likely to be driving that date off and cancel our plans.
2006-08-21 03:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mike_Cruiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the answer to this question lies in the fact that you are a crossdresser. When you are dating someone, they want to be able to trust you. No suprises. Telling someone that you are a crossdresser is not wrong - in fact it's the right thing to do. Communication in a realationship is very important. It is up to your girl to decide if this is something she can handle. I can be very accepting of crossdressers - but not if my man just shows up on the porch in a wig. I would rather he felt that he could talk to me about it, so we could gradually ease into it. Don't suprise your woman like that - suprise her with flowers.
If you trust the woman you are with, trust her with your secret. Just don't run her over with it.
2006-08-21 08:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"WTF? Me? extremely..? ME..?" ..and then i'd enable him understand particular needed issues about me, like: I proceed to exist a diverse continent, so as which could be a situation. i'm a panromantic asexual who sucks at compromising, so when you're in it for "teh sex", this can not artwork. i have were given Asperger's, so clearly i don't like wide crowds and that type of element, and that i desire my on my own time. i'm now unlikely to be in a position to address paparazzis properly. i'm now unlikely to favor to develop into well-known only for being your female friend. and that i have surely no interest in replacing who i'm, what i seem as if or how I act purely on your sake. ..If he had nevertheless been in contact when I had advised him all of THAT, which I very a lot doubt he will be, then ok, i assume we would have had some surreptitious dates on the sly. (even even with the undeniable fact that it may be complicated to maintain it a secret contained in the destiny. Ugggggh.)
2016-11-30 22:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by scharfschwerdt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would slam the door in his face most likely. I don't wanna go on a date with a girl! Most straight girls are going to feel the same way. They're supposed to be the most attractive person on the date, weirdo.
2006-08-21 03:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by allieluvsorli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I didn't know before hand he was like that I would slam the door. If I found out he was the date would never happen in the first place... Sorry
2006-08-21 03:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by lipvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUYS R LIKE THAT SOMETIMES MAKE A JOKE LIKE SAY DO YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL ME ARE U HAVING A SEX CHANGE I THINK ITS FUNNY IF I WERE YOU I WOULD JUST INVITE HIM IN AND MAKEOUT WITH HIM OR I WOULD STEP OUT OF THE DOOR AND GO AROUND CHECKING HIM OUT AND SAY LADIES FIRST AND YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO FROM THERE I WOULDN'T LIKE NEVER TALK TO HIM AGAIN I WOULD STILL TALK TO HIM
2006-08-21 05:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by joelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell someone before you actually do something like that because you just don't know what their reaction would be, and I don't think it would be a positive one. I personally would think that I was going to a mascarade ball and maybe change to dress like a guy.
2006-08-21 03:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by moveplease 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply close the door on you... Sorry but you wanted honesty.... But I wouldn't be nasty about it. I would just say no thank you and shut the door
2006-08-21 03:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by Laila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick his ***....and never call him again...I think guys dressing like girls is totally GAY!
It's a major turn off for me!
2006-08-21 03:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never date such a guy! Having a friend like that is ok, but a date.. never!
2006-08-21 03:10:55 · answer #11 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋