This has been the arrangement for some time. After school, my kid is looked after by my mum. Just that I cant stand the way my mother interrupts me while I am talking to my kid. She does this a lot. And no matter how many times I have told her to stop it, she doesnt. Then, some times when i correct my kid, she says stuff that I didnt correct my kid soon enough, I shld have corrected the kid when kiddo was younger. Sometimes, she is also very rude to me. URGH! What do I do? I cld quit work but I would be super duper bored. There isnt very good childcare near where I live.
2006-08-21 03:03:22 · 4 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My mum loves me a lot...She's always fussing around me. Just that I find her extremely irrritating cos she always thinks that she is right, and she nags like an ***
2006-08-21 03:10:35 · update #1
I wish that I cld ignore her but its hard cos perhaps her opinion matters a lot to me (as stupid as her opinions normally are). Then for some reason, I get super riled up. I keep telling her to buzz off when I am spending time alone with my daughter.....and she gets upset and sad when i do that.
2006-08-21 03:12:09 · update #2
Will others pls respond? Pretty puleeese?
2006-08-21 15:14:43 · update #3
About ten years ago I heard some make a statement about including your mother as being one of your best friends because "one day you might need childcare." Try to be a bit more tolerable with you mother. Sounds like there's more love and caring there than hate.
2006-08-21 03:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that your mom is there to help you raise your child. My mom passed away three years ago and know i don't have her to help me when i need it. Mothers always try to help just wait until you become a gradma you will the same way.
2006-08-21 10:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by laugh_a_lot2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have to work, I might suggest to quit. You might find that its not as boring as you think.I am a stay at home mom and I enjoy it very much. I can do things with my children ,clean and organize my home, have dinner ready by a decent time and never have to answer to anyone but myself. I get to work in my pajamas. ITS GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 10:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh mothers will be mothers just let her nag and you ignore shes just trying to help
2006-08-21 10:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by the ole ball and chain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋