2006-08-21 03:01:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I have been married 8 years and going strong and I still love to have sex with my husband. We have a fantastic sex life and being married has made it even better!
You should try talking to your wife and see why she doesn't want sex anymore. Maybe she is tired from her day or from the kids (if you have any). Maybe she doesn't feel desirable to you anymore.
My suggestion is try spicing up your life by having a candle lit bubble bath together, going out for a romantic dinner, spending a night in a hotel........ Talk to her and see what she has to say and then try to romance the heck out of her!
Good luck!
2006-08-21 03:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Help out with keeping the house clean. Suggest dinner out or make dinner yourself. If you have kids, offer to watch them while the wife takes a long bath, or runs to the store by herself.
A lot of times the reason a women loses interest in sex with hubby is because a tired from doing everything around the house, or they get tired of watching hubby getting sloshed every night, or watching hubby go off and do things by himself or with his friends while they have to stay home.
MEN: if the frequency of sex has dropped after marriage, try to bring your head out of your zipper and take a look at what has changed outside of the bedroom from what it was before marriage. Then try to bring back those things now missing. The sex frequency will go up.
2006-08-21 10:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by jiminycricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times there are physical reasons that women don't want sex .
Some times it is because the man just lays on you and you can't breath.. whats up with that.
also some men have gained weight and you can't get close enough to enjoy it.
some men think they should able to have sex when ever they want it not considering they don't speak to there woman or ever say anything nice to them
women like to be treated nicely .. sometimes it takes that to get them in the mood..
try sitting just holding them and doing nice things for them..
don't always just think about your needs .
it may hurt if they don't want it as much as they used to . there is alot of things that make some women not want sex..
like complaining all the time and never saying anything nice.
think about it , it could be a physical thing or the way that you treat them.
2006-08-21 10:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says married women don't want sex anymore? That's crazy. Married or not I want sex. If you are married you need to do something to spice things up. Good luck.
2006-08-21 10:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jill P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After having two failed marriages I can tell you that .. sex is just that.. sex.. most women want to feel loved..... After the act is over..... the guy should not just get dressed and say oh.. i have to finish that __________.. feels like we were used for a hole to make a deposit into..
After you get older.. we get turned off when you get a kink in your back, leg or arm.. burping in the middle of it is a real turn off too as well as farting...LOL.. sounds funny but.. why would a women want sex after putting up with that stuff?
2006-08-21 10:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ibdreamin099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that we don't want sex anymore, As you get older your body changes.......that goes for both sexes........
That's part of life......
I'm married and i'm at the point where i want it more than my hubby does........Once a woman has a child it changes their soul, their way of thinking, but in all sense We still want it just as much as you , but our bodies get tired.......we are now not only a wife, we're a mother, we clean , we cook, we do daily chores, while when ya'll get home from work ya'll do nothing.......A woman's work is never done........
What can a guy do? Help out around the house, do things that will help us out little, and just maybe you might get it more.....help out with kids and don't just leave everything for us to do.......we do it all , we get tired, and you don't get sex...........bottom line.........hope this helped you out...........
2006-08-21 10:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by SexeyMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak individually. Not all women don't want it after marriage. I still have a very healthy sex life. My husband is kind and generous, and puts my needs ahead of his. He never argues or acts pouty if I don't want it. He treats me like a human being, not an object put here to please him...that's what he does to keep me interested. Plus, he works hard all day, he deserves a woman who is ready when he is.
2006-08-21 10:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by mcnees79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard about this case a million times and it wasn't like that at all in my marriage, we are always screwing we look like bunnies already!!!! Maybe its the latino blood that runs through our vains. I do understand that kids and relatives slow things down for a while but hell play with each other, be creative, do special things in different unexpected moments. If the love is their the passion will follow I assure you!
2006-08-21 10:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married 13 years and I'm not having that problem at all.
2006-08-21 10:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by tracy211968 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im married... I always want sex. Dont know what youre talking about.
2006-08-21 10:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋