I live in Australia, Queensland(near Gold Coast), im now single, 3 sons - 17,14,and 2. I just want to have a partner for life!!! Is that soooooo much to ask!
2006-08-21 02:54:06 · 33 answers · asked by sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am in the other side of the world in finland.
gentlemen are all over the place and they ask the same thing! it is true.
i am a single father of 36 and still have the looks and charm but finding a partner for life second time around is not so easy because we are more choosy, we have fine tuned our intuition and children can be percieved as luggage.
here is a hint for you, if you have the idea to meet mr right, be prepared to come as a package. in that way you dont hide anything and it shows honesty. dont try too hard and keep your chin up a little, men find that attractive.
i am dating a single mother and apart from issues( such as both being scared because we have it so well and we are very alike) , we are so far so good.
honesty is a 2 way street and patience. laugh a little and no sex untill after a couple of weeks.
good luck
2006-08-21 03:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by viikos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I separated 3 1/2 years ago and I just recently met someone. It's hard to find someone in the middle of life because unless the have lost their loved one for some reason then they are already involved.
My new "friend" is someone that I would have never looked twice at but he's turning out to be one heck of a guy. He was persistant and I gave in and at the moment I'm pretty happy.
I basically just stopped trying to find someone and made sure that I got out amoung new groups of people as much as I could. If you go to the same places all the time with the same people your less likely to meet someone new. Try going to a boat or car show lots of men there.
Hang in there, I was just about to give up and in walked a person that could end up being the love of my life. It will happen when you least expect it.
2006-08-21 03:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by Pardonthepun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in the U.S. and i had to go all the way to Spain to find the nice men. I am 33 years old, with 3 children also, and what i found in Spain were lots of single men looking for love commitment and life long marriage, i took my sister with me to Spain and she has a marriage proposal already, and the men there that i have met are very responsible and has there head on straight, they are really hospitable. my answer to you....check out Spain! that is where i found my fiancee!...lol
2006-08-21 03:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by cocoa lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all the nice guys are involved in a bad marriage, like I am! I've been married for 12 years, I'm 33, and have 3 kids, but I am abused emotionally through it all. Recently we decided to divorce, whcih is good but yet scary, cause I'm afraid there aren't any women out there who's around my age.......but anyway, good luck in your search, and if you'd like...I can always use a good, new pen pal!!
2006-08-21 03:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 07:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you jump from no guys to I want a partner for life? What man in his right mind is going to go on a date with you,thinking that one date equals lifetime commitment? Slow down, its not our fault your thirty nine and with two kids to boot. Take each day by itself and if you do meet someone, for gods sake don't clamp down on him like a crocodile.
2006-08-21 03:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way...you don't NEED a man to complete you, but it would be a great addition to your life. If you aren't desperately seeking that perfect man, and you are confident in yourself and your life the way it is, he'll fall in your lap eventually.
And, if he doesn't, there's always plenty of 'boy toys' to play with along the way!
Good luck! ;)
2006-08-21 03:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by FairyGirl73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly believe that you should expect to meet a man you would spend your life with... meet men... go out on dates, when you want, etc.. take it one day at a time.. if it happens !! good for you.. you are one of the lucky ones.. if it doesn't happen... just be happy with your 3 children ... in this day and age.. I don't believe we can expect it... it can happen.. but not on a regular basis.. sorry .. I don't want to discourage you.. but that's my honest belief...
all the best.. .
2006-08-21 03:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that isnt to much to ask. Most guys today arent into familys like they use to be. Todays men seem to jerks. they dont know the proper way to treat a lady. Good luck!
2006-08-21 03:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by nulove1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out, and whoop it up with some friends of yours. Don't consider yourself a third wheel either when you end up going out with a married couple, who knows you may meet someone. Go to the supermarket with that nice pair of jeans on. Go to a church. find a park and walk your dog. You'll find someone.
2006-08-21 03:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋