2006-08-21 02:46:33 · 20 answers · asked by teachap 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Other - Computers
Well...one way to find out. Go to View...Explorer Bar...History...and you can check out what sites he is viewing...will tell you exactly what he is doing on the computer...perhaps just typical research...or perhaps he is looking for something on the side....do you your detective work after he gets off and find out for yourself.
2006-08-21 02:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jim B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without saying anything negative about gender, most men are the 'head of the household" and thus carry the most stress. I'm not saying women belong in the kitchen or anything else. This isn't a "caveman" type remark so please don't take it as such. Just that most men use the p/c to escape the stresses of everyday life. That's why internet gaming and such is so popular for middle aged men.
On the other hand, it is possible he is into things he shouldn't be. I would recommend 2 things...1 - talk to your husband. 2- get a bra that looks like a keyboard!
2006-08-21 09:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by woodysdrunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must agree with most of the answers you have gotten here, if your husband does not work with software or business online and does not play online games then there is not mush more on here other than porn or dating. Although there is news and research but how long can that really take?
2006-08-21 10:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by blk_smith_4140 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from many of the top saying check the history but ... men are not stupid, they will delete history, cookie etcs. Well many of my friend i know their wife is not really happy of them playing online games like the MMORPG which is really addictive. I had experience my self, I play games and it really make me cant stop and wont do anythings. I quit it now as my wife put more time with me, and of couse have more of ... you should know how to make your husband happy and he will turn to you instead of staying online to meet friends, playing in the viatual world of games and people. Good luck out there.
2006-08-21 10:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by penguinusaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depending on the amount of time he spends at the computer.To determine if your hubby is a compulsive pc user, take this test
http://www.netaddiction.com/cyberwidows/cyberwidows/partners_test.htm
These days mental health professionals diagnosed hardcore user as IAD (internet addiction disorder). Good Luck~
2006-08-21 09:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i had the same problem just recently.........Playing games, chatting, prolly looking at porn or naked pics , its a lack of communications.......
How i solved it.............I just told him he needed to stop playing cuz he was taking his time away from me and our child, when i play on puter i'm not taking my time away from anyone cuz i'm at home and hubby is at work, child at school.........but when he gets home i don't get on puter not unles me n hubby both are doing something online together......but by me playing on puter during the day does not stop me from doing my daily household chores.....that's kinda obivious consider he has food on the table at dinner and his clothes are clean..........lol
You need to sit down and tell your hubby how that makes you feel with him being online all the time and maybe set up at time where you both can be online for a certain about of times, for instance, if he watches a certain show at night and you don't wanna watch it then you get to play on puter ......vice versa......maybe that will help........Good Luck and i hope i helped you out a lil bit............But trust me! i know what your going through and its not easy............GL
2006-08-21 09:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by SexeyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well could be lots of reasons,If you are really curious check your computers history see which sites hes been visiting
2006-08-21 09:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by msnosey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs some intellectual stimulation, and isn't getting it when exposed to you or the other factors in your household enviroment.
2006-08-21 09:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question..... but you are the one that could know which is the answer.
Don't you think that it is time to take care more about yourself in order to win him back?
2006-08-21 09:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by UncleGeorge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty obvious. The two of you don't communicate. Obvious since you posted that question here instead of asking him directly.
2006-08-21 09:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by thunder2sys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋