I did start to wonder when he said make sure that you can wash it.I was going to get him a replacement memory card for his digital camera as he lost his down a drain on his stag night.I feel like he is putting me under undue pressure.
2006-08-21 02:23:30 · 38 answers · asked by thesourceofallinfo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just buy him a memory card............ and a pair of socks!!!!!
2006-08-28 08:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Gninja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to wake up -- he's getting married, this isn't a frat night. Get him what you were going to get him -- the memory card -- and tell him they were all out of rubber sex dolls at the rubber sex doll store. If he wants sex toys, he can go shopping with his new wife.
Anyway, a wedding gift should be for both partners, not just him - it's not his birthday! Also, it has to be the type of gift that could be opened by one of the mothers or grandmothers and they would not be offended - because it may well be that that could happen (that is, the bride and her aunt or mother or someone sit down and open everything the next day or when they get back from the honeymoon or something). Wedding conventions say that the bride deals with all the gifts and writes thank you notes for them.
So you should get the memory card for him, then get one nice gift for both of them that will really please her -- something for their house.
Getting sex-related stuff for him or for the two of them will make YOU look weird, especially in the bride's eyes, or at least the relatives' eyes.
2006-08-21 02:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by Katrine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can judge if this is innocent question about how to turn on his future wife or whether he is making a pass on you. Only tiny bit of information is given through words themselves. Most (some say it's about 70%) is passed by body language, as well as tone of voice and the circumstances. If you are not sure still - "coincidentally" look through some sex stuff catalog and ask what he would like to have..
2006-08-27 23:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Feniks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an odd request.
If you feel pressured to purchase him something sexy, get him some little lacy thing from a department store, maybe something they both can enjoy.
Or just get him the card for his camera.
2006-08-21 02:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely weird ... No one buys the groom something sexy for a wedding present (unless it's the bride!)
Better to buy his future wife some sexy lingerie and get her to wear them on the wedding night! I would suggest she tries the stuff on for you before she shows him, but that might cause a few problems!
2006-08-21 02:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who else is gonna buy the man a thong? Go to a sex store, buy something ridiculous, like a thong, sex toy, or lube (or maybe a gift bag?), and give it to him at his bachelor party. Get a nice gift for the couple. Yes, you could get him something useful, but some people believe that a nice gift is one that somebody wants but wouldn't buy for themselves.
2006-08-27 16:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by newinfiniteabyss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him a Kama sutra book from Barnes and nobles.it has really hot sex positions and stuff that he can try.dont worry i dont think hes gay or anything he probably wants something sexy but is 2 embarrassed 2 buy it himself.u his best buddy on the other hand can buy it 4 him.
2006-08-28 14:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahahah how funny maybe he means for the wedding night- and hes entrusting you to find something as you are a good mate- dont be offended be flattered- not many men would ask this of their mate!!!
(basically he either wants a thong or a posing pouch) but maybe get him a tea towel and quote "you said you must beable to wash it"
nice one!
2006-08-21 02:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants some kind of TOY but this way he can say come on honey lets atleast try it out we got it as a gift. That way he can introduce it to her but be like I didn't buy something like this but come on it must be fun!
2006-08-29 01:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by chemicalCourtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are letting him put you under pressure. Stop letting him do that. Make your own judgment of what you want to give him.
In the future you can joke to him that he asked you to buy him something sexy
2006-08-28 21:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously thinks he can trust you so he is asking you stuff and you go spreading this news on the internet. Poor guy. He is getting married. Give him a break.
2006-08-27 21:58:32 · answer #11 · answered by sampaul21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋