my sister is pregnat she is 13 and my mother dont know yetwhat should i do?

Question

should i tell my mother, or let her figure it out?

Answer 1

i think it is your sisters job to tell her...she is the one who got pregnat so she should tell her.

Answer 2

tell your mom. your sister may be afraid and may not want a baby but it happened and the baby needs medical care. your mom should take her to a doctor to make sure nothing is going wrong inside her because it could also affect your sister. It sounds like you love your sister and you really care about her because you are asking for her so please but before you do, tell her why you are telling and why it is a good thing. If she doesnt get checked out, there may be things she dont know are wrong and legally you can go to jail for not having prenatal care for an unborn child....some kind of neglect thing they call it. My boyfriend's sister is in danger of this right now in florida state. besides, do you think your mom would handle things better if she knew and could possibly help in the begining? or would it be worse when she has to discover for herself??? You be the judge...Let me know what happens, Please.

Answer 3

yes you love your sister so in all honesty, her being that young is dangerous for both her and the baby, She needs medical care to monitor her throughout the whole pregnancy, not just when she gets big enough for mom to "figure" it out. You need to talk to your sister first and then the three of you sit down to talk it out. Be there for her and let her know that she is not alone in thisand not be afraid to tell mom. If mom really loves her like I did my daughter, she'll understand and want to help. Yeah she's gonna be hurt but you can't change it but have to accept it and make the best out of it for both your sister and the new little one. Hope this helps and GOD bless.

Answer 4

Talk to your sister, encourage her to tell your mom, She does need prenatal vitamins to keep her baby healthy. Take her to the doctor help her get what she needs to supprt her baby. Both of my sisters had babies in highschool and I couldnt imagine my life without them. She will do ok with a sister like you, God Bless!! I wont even say anything about abortion Scarlett Rose has said enought to discourage anyone "So what if they feel pain", psycho! . Pregnancy is a beautiful thing. Let your sister make her own decision and support her.

Answer 5

I was a teenage mother sometimes its not that easy to go tell your parents. My parents are not the most understanding people in the world. I had to tell my mom over the phone, I then was homeless for 9 months. If it is safe to tell your mom then ask your sister if she wants you to break the news if not then she really needs to tell her that way you guys have time to go over all the options. another option is to talk to another trusted adult and have that person talk to mom first. Good Luck and please encourage her to let someone know so she can get prenatal care right away

Answer 6

i think you and your sister together should tell your mom. If you wait you will not have as many options 4 the pregnancy. Your sister needs to be seeing a doctor on on vitamins your mom will be the one to take her. If she wants to put it up for adoption she should be looking into a adoption center NOW and making those arrangements. If she is going to abort it is most safely done in the 1st 14 weeks. Mom needs to know about this

Answer 7

Yes, tell your mother right now! If shes only 13 she is a high risk pregnancy. Your sister needs to see a OB/GYN as soon as possible. I know its a hard situation, but shes going to have to accept responsibilty for her actions.She needs to keep in mind for future reference that having sex is a major thing that comes with a lot responsibilty and at 13 she should not be thinking about sex much less having it.

Answer 8

I would give my mother hints.and then if she didn't get it in a couple of days then i would tell her. I'm 19 and my sister is 13 and i have to be honest since I'm the older one i would tell my mom in a heart beat! that's because I'm older and more wiser and I'm also pregnant and i know that the when your pregnant its very important for you to go to the doctors.you should also try to talk your sister into telling your mom herself because this is her problem but if she didn't in a reasonable time frame then i think you should tell her so that the baby will have all the proper care it needs.

Answer 9

your sister need prenatal care she need to tell some one that can get her to and doc or the local health deportment. if you do not have prenatal care you high risk of your baby being born with birth defects. you have to have the right care ween pregnant. she can also apply for wic at the health deportment that well help with food now and milk ween the baby is born. i say you need to tell her she needs to tell your mom so she doesn't have problems with the baby. my mom was 17 scared to tell my grandma i was born early i wight 3 pounds and in 1982 i am luck to be live. i had spaniel Majesties now i am 23 have read problem and just all out hard time if my mom would have got the prober care i wouldnt be like this.

at the health deportment she can apply for medicade that well pay for the brith of the baby. also can apply for its called baby love here but not shore if it the same all over. you earn points for like doc vist and not to shore how that works but my friend was on it ween she was 16 and having and baby you take the points and can get and car seat or stroller stuff like that well help out there she needs to tell you mom tell her you well be with her if she dose it.

Answer 10

If your sis' can't tell your Mum then is there anyone else she can tell? Often the Doctors have a nice nurse around or a Health Visitor. They will be really good and helpful and give any support that's needed including be around when your Mum's told. Support her and try to get her to speak to someone who can help...please tell someone it'll only get worse.

Answer 11

You should all sit down together to tell her. Where was your mother at when her 13 year old CHILD was having SEX??Should not be a surprise to your mother that her baby is preg., since obviously she does not know how to parent properly.