Iv been friends with this lad for over 5 yrs now if not longer.. I v always had a soft spot for him but either him or me had been in a relationships in the past. I did admit 2 him once that i liked him n he admitted he liked me to but we went ona few dates but nothing became ov it.Then we lost contact for a while. We reasontly started havin a bit to do with each other again,We txt lots and i met up with him n his friends the other nite.It woz a really good night but i didnt feel as tho he gave me much attention. I was always making the effort n talking to him so i came to conclustion maybe he just liked me as a friend.. I got on with the rest ov the night n hes friends were fantastic with me. The day after he txted me sayin he had a grate night n he wants me to come out with him n hes friends again n he told me i looked ssooo fine that night.. Now this had confussed me.. Wot do u think?? Is he intrested??
2006-08-21 01:55:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, he's interested and for some unknown reason afraid of just saying so. I'd wear some really great perfume (yes the expensive one's are REALLY worth it) and go out again. Have fun.
2006-08-21 02:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by dt_05851 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just treating you nice as a friend. i mean you wanna make sure he has feelings for you just be frank and ask. You 2 have been friends for 5 years? Should that make it easier for you 2 to confess? break the ice by admitting that you like him and ask him how does he feel. Oh yeah, go out on a date with him and read the signs that he shows
2006-08-21 02:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Abel Blessed Lim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure sounds like he has the soft spot for you, obviously texting is his only way of telling you how much he likes you, well in that case then maybe you should text him saying you really like him and see what he texts back with, obviously this is a risk, but by looking at what you've said, the results should be good.
Also him bringing you with his mates is his own way of showing you off even though your not together, and his friends were probably really nice to you because they know that he has feelings for you... oooo maybe you can find out if he likes you through his friends? its something that sometimes works!
or maybe make lil suggestions and see how he reacts to them
2006-08-21 02:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'd probably be more interested if you could speak and write English correctly ... Why do people insist on using "text speak" or phonetics?
In answer to your question, I'd suggest you ask him for a date then ask him point blank if he thought there was a future for the two of you as an "item" ... Seems like the best way to find something out is to ask!
2006-08-21 02:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think he really likes u! maybe u should talk to him about a relationship. i'm sure u guys would make a wonderful couple. plus u guys be having a good time together. U WERE MEANT FOR HIM!! so u better get at him before someone else does.. just tell him how u really feel about him.. i'm sure he feels the same way and i'm sure he's doing the same thing ur doing now.. so speak up and tell him how u feel sweety!!
2006-08-21 02:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should concentrate your efforts on someone else.It sounds like he just wants to be friends. As soon you take it futrher than friends.. your risking your friendship.
I was friends with a girl, we took our relationship further and had a 2 year relationship but it didnt work out and now we dont talk at all. Its all complicated and stuff. Now im upset and angry with her and want to forget about it. I wish I stayed friends with her.
2006-08-21 03:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by jrajohn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good news is that he likes being around you. You're not going to really know how he feels unless you talk to him and ask him. The sooner you do it, the better before your feelings get deeper anymore. I think this is the true way to find out if he's interested. Good luck.
2006-08-21 02:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out ask I know its not easy I know u risk the freindship but hey maybe he is going through the same questions/dilemmas you are bite the bullet sit him down tell him you like him and that maybe you would like to be more than freinds
2006-08-21 02:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Steve P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for som reason yes. Dont be confused at all. If he likes u, he will show his feeling. He's now inviting you out againd, that possibly means that he still likes you. Good luck
2006-08-24 08:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by teemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to play games with you. If he likes you he should just tell you. Don't make a tit out of yourslef trying to prove to him again that you like him!
2006-08-25 00:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by GroovyChick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋