I want to perform oral sex on my partner, i have done it in the past and always found it awkward and hard to keep a rythm.. any tips??
2006-08-21 01:41:37 · 24 answers · asked by Helen S 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Loosen your throat, cup/ play with the balls, focus on the head of the penis, and stick with it.
2006-08-21 01:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy Boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that the tongue plays the best part.... practice with a banana....
some people may say to do the deep throat stuff... but dont do that if it make you uncomftable, etc....
Just do some 'twisting' type motion... along with your hands... You dont really need to keep to a rhythm or anything... just go slow and alter techniques. As I say, use your tongue and lick around it... kiss it, and all the rest... focus more of the head, and with your hand hold the testicles and the rest. It will soon become second nature!!
I enjoy it... no matter how good it was!!!! Just keep it simple and dont go tooo hard on it!!!
Lastly, dont swallow if you dont want to... most people seem to think that a guy finds it 'dis-respectful' to reject his love juice.... but if you dont like that stuff... tell him before you start.... etcetc
The rest youll find out together.... and hopefully, he will do the same thing for you 'Orally' in return!!!
Good luck!!!
2006-08-21 02:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think a good idea is to use manual masturbation in combination with oral masturbation. So when your jaw starts to ache just use your hand for a while before going back to putting it in your mouth. Use your mouth to tease and your hand to arouse and satisfy. You don't want to be bobbing your head up and down anyway, so don't worry about keeping a rythmn, just move your tongue around at different speeds and keep your mouth as moist as possible with saliva. Make satisfied noises as you perform oral sex if your partner likes it.
2006-08-21 04:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what u mean, it aches and the rhythm starts 2 wobble. when i feel like this just switch 2 using ur hand 4 a while then start again. or keep ur mouth still and do a few tongue techniques around the head.
2006-08-21 03:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the underneath of your tongue, as its a bit more textured for variety.
You dont have to keep putting everything in your mouth, keep a bit of eye contact with your guy, and give a little dirty smile.
Can't believe I have said that, and Im supposed to be such a good clean living girl
2006-08-21 02:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by daisymay 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just imagine that it is an ice cream, I was told this by a lad so it must be true, all lips and tongue no teeth!! and if you ask a lad what was the worst one they have ever received they will say the one they never got. I think it is impossible to not satisfy a lad that way.
2006-08-21 03:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it to music
or, tell him that you want to do it differently, and ask him whether he has any preferences
or, ask him to give you oral at the same time, then move your lips to the rythm of your hips
(and that was accidentally a rhyme)
2006-08-21 03:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer a guy...yet apparently I supply a fairly sturdy job. the superb aspect to do is discover out how the penis works. once you comprehend what the frenulum is, the position it really is positioned, and how tender that is you'll have an theory of what you're doing. My sought after reference is theovereducatednympho. Google it, her weblog is fairly tremendous, it has fantastic bj assistance, she explains alot of the psychological component of giving a sturdy one. one aspect she leaves out even with the undeniable fact that, is gagging. in case you may set off your gag reflex with him on your throat and by no skill have something 'arise' it feels marvelous apparently. Yay for candid talks with gay adult adult males...and a pair talks with instantly ones too. it really is perplexing even with the undeniable fact that, so be careful!
2016-11-26 21:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by freije 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't suck too hard! Most women who have done this to me always think it's about trying to outsuck a vacuum cleaner.
Try not to catch your teeth on his dick, that hurts.
Use your tongue, run it up and down his shaft, flick it over the end, get it all wet and blow it gently.
Lick and suck his balls, I like it, I'm sure he will too.
Make sure he tells you when is about to come, not all women like it when a guy shoots off in their mouth, you're not obliged to swallow it either.
Get him to make sure he is clean, you won't have to worry about any nasty smells or tastes then.
2006-08-21 01:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
all you have to do is relax and go with the flow if you wont to lick then do so bit of variety but you must enjoy doing it for your partner to feel it!! tease and lick nibble and stroke! good luck
2006-08-23 06:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋