We are at school far from my country and my friend just got pregnant. She is an orphan and her uncle is the one paying her school fees. She hasnt told him yet coz he might stop paying her school fees. Am scared if anything goes wrong? shld i report her to him for her own good coz she also need financial help.
2006-08-21 01:17:45 · 18 answers · asked by jane b 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Give her all the support she needs. Being pregnant isn't easy and she can be emotionally imbalanced from time to time. She's going to have to tell her uncle soon coz she really needs help financially. Be supportive to your friend and always keep her smiling.
2006-08-21 01:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by boyhukas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in the USA from another country, you're friend can stay here...her baby has automatic American citizenship and since she'd be the baby's caregiver...well, she stays...plus, single parents in the US get tons of grants and other help from the government for schooling. In any other country, I don't know. If she needs help for the pregnancy, there are tons of resources online and depending on the state, there are outreach centers, groups, and other places for emotional and financial/medical support. It's going to be okay. I'd suggest talking to a school counselor...they have access to tons of help lines.
2006-08-21 01:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mandi R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey! Support her emotionally . During these days irrational decision and frustration seeps into the mind .
Secondly most important ,take her to the doctor and keep updating her status .
If she is in mood for abortion , better call her family members.
2006-08-21 01:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by indianYogi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure she goes to a doctor and has healthcare. She can probably go on public assistants depending where you live. It's up to her to tell her family. You will lose her as a friend if you tell. She needs you now.
2006-08-21 01:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should advise your friend to be a bit more independent.She dared to lose her virginity,she should have the courage to face her uncle and tell him the truth.If she is too afraid, ask her to do an abortion and ask her uncle for an apology
2006-08-21 01:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl well that king of hard to figure out b/c she is a orphan and really doesn't have any one to support her but u so tell her uncle.
2006-08-21 02:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by lcarroll28571 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find a way to help her pay for the abortion she probably ends up trying to get.Good luck.
2006-08-21 01:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't your problem. All you can do is listen to her but best not give too many suggestions in case they come back to haunt you.
2006-08-21 01:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's none of your business. stay out of someone else's family issues. Just be there and be a friend for your friend.
tom
2006-08-21 01:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your job. Be suportive but dont interfere as it will tear your friendship apart.
2006-08-21 01:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋