Well Iam a lesbian and I used to be really butch and look exactly like a boy and their was nothing that was going to change that. Although I always seemed to be kinda the female in the relationship. And now Iam wearing make up and slowly starting to dress alot more like a girl. I still keep my short hair but I just kinda have a strong urge to be more Femme! Iam attracted to femme but aggresive girls....I don't know what's happening to me...Iam changing from what I've been since I was a baby! Is this weird at all?
2006-08-21 01:14:25 · 10 answers · asked by Faye 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Everyone changes!
It's perfectly okay to have times when you feel more butch or more femme or comfortably androgynous.
Why would you try to limit yourself to looking or being a particular way?
2006-08-21 02:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not weird at all... All people change in one way or another as they grow up. Just try to make the most out of the changes you are going through.
2006-08-21 05:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Hot For Girls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. People change their lifestyle sometimes, usually gradually as you're describing. Just express yourself however you want. If that means wearing a little makeup and capris instead of baggy shorts and a boybeater, then go for it.
2006-08-21 06:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all change with time, in one way or the other, it is nature. I did change since I was 13, and I look back and feel human.
2006-08-21 01:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing at all wrong with looking good.it dose not a cange who you are.who said you had to look butch to be a lesbians.as long as you are happy.and your mate love you.and you love you.have fun with your life.good luck in all you walk of life. god bless you.and best wishs always.
2006-08-21 20:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you is not to worry about any change but to go with the flow and do your best to enjoy what it brings you.
2006-08-21 01:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with trying out new things. It's a girls prerrogative.
I don't think it's weird.
2006-08-21 03:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by cmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're just maturing. Some changes like that are normal.
2006-08-21 01:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw... you don't have to stick to one image if you don't want to! change spices up your life; pretend you've always been eating chocolate - you crave a different flavor now.
2006-08-21 05:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by kittens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR ARE BI NOW
2006-08-21 01:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by do it good 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋