IM 15 AND JUST FOUND OUT IM PREGNANT! my mother doesnt know! IM a honor student?

Question

ive worked too hard and now my moms going to be crushed! what should i do this baby is going to ruin everything. ?

Answer 1

I'll adopt it!

Answer 2

Yes, its true. Your mother will be crushed but you should have thought of that before you decided to lay down with that boy. Its amazing how you can work so hard for something and blow it all in a matter of a few minutes. I am sure that when you were in the bed knocking boots, that must have been the best 4 minutes that you had ever experienced. But obviously it was not worth what you are about to go through.

The best thing that you can do is tell your mother and take your lumps. Deal with the situation and move forward. Either put the baby up for adoption or find a way to live on your own if you intend on raising the child yourself. You have to start making plans TODAY and work with your mother to come up with a permanent plan and solution.

Answer 3

All is not lost. You must be the woman you have now become.
Tell your mom. Don't dispair, she will lose her mind but she will
recover. She raised You. A strong,beautiful, & intelligent female.
Together you will work it out. Inspite of the pain,you both will
survive this. Don't be discouraged. She may say hurtful things
but know she'll always love you. She can't help going balistic.
It'll blow over. Then you can talk about your plans. You have many options nowadays. You can have the baby & give it up
for adoption.
Maybe your mom will even raise it for you while you finish your
education. Don't give up. You must learn from this & grow up.
You are responsible for another life now.
Don't quit your goals.
Get a school counselor or relative to be a mediator if you are
afraid to approach your mom alone.
Good Luck!

Answer 4

The baby will not ruin everything. You've ruined everything.

The thing is, once you've made the choice to have unsafe sex, it's not all about you anymore. It's about the baby. Life doesn't revolve around you anymore.

You could have an abortion. That's a personal choice, and I know many are against it.

Secondly, you could put your baby up for adoption. There are so many couples unable to have children who would love to take care of your baby in a way that you can not.

Or, you can keep the baby. But you certainly don't sound ready for it. A baby will take ALL of your energy, and unless you have an amazing support system (actually, even if you do), it will be REALLY hard.

Tell your mother.

Answer 5

YOU SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THAT FIRST!.. you teenagers think you are so smart you can just go out and have sex whether you are in a relationship or not, it is disgusting. it is too late now so you will have to make some serious, educated decisions, but in your case i do not by any means recomend that you have an abortion because the sex was your choice (i'm assuming because of your choice of words). you should seriously consider adoption, many responsible people can't have children because of reproductive problems, this would be a gift to them.


this coming from the same person who asked : i have 4 different boyfriends how do i break up with 3 of them??

Why do black men got better sex than any other race??

and i can't leave these out..

why do all white girls look anorexia. damn white girls do yall ever eat a hamburger?? lol?

THIS IS FORTHE WHITE CHICKS!why yall so scared to fight us??

yes, i copy and pasted all of those! wow, an honor student who can't even type correctly. you sound like a real bright one!

Answer 6

Well there are many options but the first thing you should do is tell your mother! I myself got pregnant at a young age and although my mother was shocked and upset at first she helped me so much in deciding what to do. Most importantly get to a doctor! Once you do that they will discuss all of your options and make sure that u pick the one that is right for you. I kept my baby but I had a friend who gave her baby up for adoption and she went to a wonderful family and she is well taken care of. It really is your choice on whether you want to keep the baby or not but if you keep it a secret too long you will get to the point where there is no choice but to have the baby.

Answer 7

You should tell your mom asap.she will probably understand that everyone makes mistakes. the sooner you tell her the better. you need to go to the doctors.and yes to be honest the baby will change everything for you. you never know it might change somethings for the better, like bringing the family closer together. there are many of girls that get pregnant young and go off and still become successful. for example my sister had a baby when she was 15 and another when she was 19. she went ahead and continued school and became an R.N. even though it took some years of hard work. anythings possible. if you set your mind to it you can achieve it.

Answer 8

I am 17 and I am due with my first child in October. I too am an honor student and the condom broke on me. You can do it if you choose to raise a child and go to school. If you check with your local school district or the state a lot of them are coming up with young mother's programs. You need to tell your mom, once my mom got over the initial shock she was ok. I have worked and saved money, and with the support of everyone I have gotten through it. Just sit your mom down and talk to her, you need her more than ever right now.

Answer 9

this is ur choose talk to ur GP first then ur mum i was the same not at school though i had just finished collage got a good job and fell pregnant i had to think long and hard my job or baby in the end i did have my baby i thought my mum would have killed me but they understand they have been there a baby is not the end of the world u could take home worse than a baby also u can get child care i am hopeing to go back a study agen good luck and remember it is up to u don't listen to people who say not to have an abortion it is up to u think about ur life first

Answer 10

Well at 15 you shouldn't have done anything that might give you a baby..hint hint.

Um...your 15 your not old enough to handle that kind of responsibility. You have to tell your mom...you just do. And then ask her what to do. Either have the baby and put it up for adoption or just have an abortion, you cant take care of it yourself. I personally don't agree with abortions so go for the adoption route. You shouldn't have been doing that to begin with now you must pay for your actions.

Answer 11

Hon, don't forget, this is your mom's grandchild.
Talk to her about this. Right now you need support.
And no, the baby isn't going to ruin everything. A bit of a road block, yes, but this is your child here that you're talking about, not some toy you can just toss away . There are ways to work things out. The best thing I can say is to talk to you mom calmly as you can. If she's upset, remind her that this IS her grandchild as well. Parents tend to forget this.