My girlfriend has had her ears pierced three times now and she wants me to have mine done for the first time on 'her' birthday just for her. She wants me to have both ears pierced but just the once. Isn't this a sign that you are gay.
2006-08-21 00:56:21 · 29 answers · asked by David R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
yes go ahead looks very sexy
2006-08-23 00:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rita W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! just a sign of being cool. One earring used to supposedly have sexual connotations in the 80's, can't remeber which ear meant what though!
I think the worst thing about your question is your girlfriend's attitude, have you ever wanted your ears done? Will you have to take them out at a later date if you get dumped? Make up your own mind! If you want to have 2 go for it, if you'd rather not, don't!
2006-08-21 08:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by rami #1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the more important question should be: Do *you* want them done? Ignore the sexuality question you pose (which is a non sequitur), and ask yourself why you're asking this question in the first place? Is it because you don't really want your ears pierced, and are thinking that this is a good excuse? It sounds like you're being pressured into something you're not that keen on, and to do something like this, which is, essentially, body modification, without wanting to do it wholeheartedly is not a good idea.
If you're happy with the idea, go with it. If not, don't! Don't get inveigled into something that you don't want to do.
2006-08-21 08:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by bouncingtigger13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,the sign you are gay is being attracted to men-not having your ears pierced. Who cares what people think anyway-as long as you like it sod everyone else
2006-08-21 08:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Louise C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both ears is gay, right ear is gay. One piercing in left ear is fine. Small, thin, gold hoops look nice on chaps.
2006-08-21 08:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by K38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise. Have one ear pierced twice.
OR
Agree to it but let her drive there. Wait until she is driving slowly, open the door and ROLL out of the car, get up quick and run like hell in the opposite direction.
OR
You and your girlfriend BOTH get your butt cheek branded... oooohhhhhhoooo painful!
2006-08-21 08:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by Henry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a kid at school I always thought that men with just their right ear pierced were gay. Why don't you play it safe and have a 'prince albert', lol.
2006-08-21 08:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by scatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have your ears pierced because your girlfriend wants that!
Be your own man !
2006-08-21 08:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry! 1 can look a bit camp, but two looks nice. Even better, you could get your upper ear pierced? That looks cool on guys.
2006-08-21 08:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ellie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of men have both ears pierced now, it looks good if you wear the right earrings
2006-08-21 08:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥sandpaper kisses♥ >^..^< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not in these times. There are so many "rules" for being gay that sooo many people break, myself included (I probably break them all!)
If you want your ears pierced, get them done. If not, tell her. If she doesn't accept it, then tell her she needs to. She can't change you.
BTW, I asked a similar question. Here's what everyone else has said - http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060821044444AAAzPk5.
2006-08-21 08:10:05 · answer #11 · answered by HiFi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋