well, my bf named han, he broke up with his ex and got into a new relationship with me.i love him.he says he love me but i'm not sure if that is true or not.well, he have this thingy called friendster.so do i. i added him on my friends list and he accepted it.upon seeing his trestimonials on his profile, i was in shockness.i don't know who to ask for advice if not YOU! yes, YOU!!
his ex-gf gave him a testimonial by writing, i love u, DADDY. she even said listen to all girls out there, he and me are not good cuzssouns/friends but we are husband and wife! my blood boiled up! and the thing was that, he approved of all the testimonials.i mean, if he doesn't love her anymore, he should have rejected her testimonials! tell me what to do..let him go or fight for my love?
2006-08-21 00:20:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let him go, he isn't concerned about your feelings. You deserve better
2006-08-21 00:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just letting her blow off some steam,she make think she's messing up his sex life by posting something dumb like that on his site,or maybe she's really after you to break you up with him so she can get him back? Don't worry about it, is he still with you? does he disappear from time to time? Won't answer his phone when you call? If not the best way to fight back is to do nothing. Look at this like a fire : If you don't add any logs to the fire,it has to burn it's self out don't it? Don't let his ex upset you,fight the good fight,and a smart one. Also when was the testimonial posted? Before or after you two got together? Maybe he hasn't gotten around to taking it off?
2006-08-21 00:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for your love. That should not evens be a question for that matter. Make him understand about how this makes you feel and that he should consider your feelings in the matter. Tell him that you are not going to settle the matter with her as it is not your business. He should be the one and if he values your relationship then he will see your point. So speak to him and be honest about how you feel and look at possible solutions to the problem TOGETHER. If you are going to freak about it then you will be drivining him away and you definitely don't want that. Best of luck amigo
2006-08-21 00:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go away from ur lover if he comes back to you like a fool then he is a fool THUS UR LOVER. JUST TRY IT,it might sound hard to do but i think its the only way for u to know if he really loves u.Good luck dear
2006-08-21 00:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is confont him if you dont ask you wont know,check body language out even do research on it you will get a lot of your answers from that
2006-08-21 00:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by charlie baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go ask him first about the testimonial..... and if he gives the a good reason try to tell him that its not right... if he gets mad at you then he doesnt really love you... who the hell would get mad because you were just being honest... right? and dont be afraid to ask him if he still loves that girl... well just helping i dunno if it'll reallt help ... :D
2006-08-21 00:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by lulubear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u must teach him a lesson somehow and then leave him because u need to make him realize that u are not so easy to be used. go on teach him a lesson.
2006-08-21 00:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, if hes a 2 timer, im a 4 timer.. its all good though, its all gooood
2006-08-21 01:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are still good friends...
however, if you can't get passed your petty jealousy and insecurity, then just end it with him... you don't seem to be able to control your emotions on the matter... you are probably better off on your own...
2006-08-21 00:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you blind? He doesnt love you. I dont think so he thinks of you as his gf. So just forget him and move on.
2006-08-21 00:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋