I have broke it off with him and told him to leave me alone, also threatened to tell his wife but he just wont stop calling and sending email. what do I do?
2006-08-21 00:12:40 · 27 answers · asked by blueyedattitiude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to continue ignoring him! He is a horrible man to do that to you and his wife. And if you do stay with him and he does lose his wife, eventually he is going to do the same thing to you. Block him from your email or just don't respond when he emails. Don't answer your phone and when he leaves messages just delete them the minute they are on, don't listen to them. You were very smart for stopping it as soon as he told you the truth. If someone really likes you they would not be doing that to you.
2006-08-21 00:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell his wife. It will be your word against his and she will probably take his side. Or she will at least stand by him and will take all the frustration out on you. Walk away while you can and don't get sucked back into the situation. You don't want the drama caused by telling her.
You can change your phone number and block his email account so you won't receive his emails.
I know it's hard to do and you probably care about him. But you need to cut off all contact with the man, so he will leave you alone. Just remember that he didn't tell you he was married from the beginning so your relationship was based on lies. Let him go. You'll feel so much better!
2006-08-21 14:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for what happened - and the guy should really deserve some punishment!
Threatening him to tell his wife is I think effective, but I'd advise that you will not in fact do it - because it is not likely that his wife will consider you as their marriage-saver (maybe in a long run, but probably not when she hears the bad news from you), rather she would think you are his partner-in-crime.
You have spent enough love & time on the pathetic lier, and I think you shoud leave him and wife alone for them to figure out their mess.
Tell him firmly that you do not want anything to do with him any more, and pls remember - you do NOT want to love this loser.
2006-08-21 07:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Green Peach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him again that you will tell his wife if he won't leave you alone. If he keeps it up, then tell his wife. He is just mad because you won't see him anymore. When men find a woman on the side they like to keep her, forever if possible. They like for women to stay stuck. Good for you for breaking it off. God bless you and take care........
2006-08-21 07:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his wife. She has the right to know how he lied and betrayed her, this will also help you to get over him. Do not reply to his emails or his calls. Find someone who is willing to give all of himself to you and not base your relationship on a lie.
2006-08-21 08:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by UmmFaisal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his wife and arrange a lunch meeting with her, without him knowing and break the news to her, that should end it. If not block his email and change your phone number, and call the police....stalking?
2006-08-21 08:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Robert V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't respond to his emails and don't answer his calls- he will give up eventually. If not, you should tell his wife. Whatever you do, don't keep seeing the guy!
2006-08-21 07:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by europa312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can do this call his wife of send a letter tell her he,s a piece of trash to even cheat on his wife u defenitly don,t someone like that in u life if that don,t work file charges it,s better to be safe then sorry u know what i mean
2006-08-21 09:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps calling you and won't stop, you may want to change your phone number. As for his emails, don't answer them but save them just in case you need them for evidence in the event that he starts harrasing you or even stalking you.
2006-08-21 07:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there, except I found out on the 2nd date. I was disappointed, but felt good to know early on so it didn't get serious. I am really disgusted by people who do that...what a lack of respect they have for themselves, their spouses and their dates...best wishes!!
2006-08-21 09:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋