Im a 16yo girl and have sex most weekends?

Question

i have been having sex since i was 14 i have sex most nights of the week im not easy its just that i like it is this wrong i dont think the boys just use me

Answer 1

So why are you telling us? Of course 'the boys' use you! Why pay when they can get it for free?

Have you ever thought that you might be using them?

Answer 2

I'm not going to judge, although of course it was illegal for anyone to have had sex with you at the ages of 14 and 15. However, what you should be concerned about is your future health. Having lots of different sexual partners and lots of sex at such a young age is one of the most common causes of cervical cancer in later life. The more partners and sex and the younger the age at which you start your sex life so the earlier the possible onset of cervical cancer becomes. The initial treatment for CC, is almost alway a hysterectomy followed by the usual treatment for cancer. Many women though do sadly still die from the condition. So you may be enjoying sex now, and there's no reason why you shouldn't, but you really should think about how much and with whom you have sex, and think of your longer term future.

Answer 3

I didnt loose my virginity until I was 24. I resisted the urge!! or maybe it was the girls that resisted me?? Anyway.. you shouldnt be having so much sex at 16? You might get pregnant and then what?? I can tell you most 16-20 year old boys are not ready to be a parent. That would scare the hell out of me if I was that young and got someone pregnant. You can use protection but it doesnt work all the time.

Answer 4

Well more fool you. You won't be so smug when you are pregnant or have a disease.. get some respect - sex/lovemaking is a way of showing another person how much you care - you are putting no more feeling into than an animal in heat. You should not be proud of what you are doing you should be ashamed and embarrased enough to want to stop and change. The fact that you are asking this question in the first place proves you know it's not all right. Is it??????

Answer 5

As long as your careful and don't feel dirty or confused afterwards. Also make sure you know the guy well before getting into a situation with him. Your so vulnerable at 16.
I used to be like you when I was 16, i needed attention and thought having sex was what I was looking for...It wasn't, I used to feel horrible and disgusted with myself afterwards and now that I'm in a good relationship, i can go weeks without having it because I get all the attention I need off him in other ways.
Just be very careful, use protection and don't put yourself in dangerous situations....some nasty people out there sweetheart.

Answer 6

Ur 16 and you have been having sex since you were 14? Wow, umm no judgement being made, but i don't think it is healthy, besides, when you really do fall in love with someone, you will regret sex with everyone you have evr been with. Besides, risks of std's or sti's are out there, plus even though you use a condom, it could break, and you could get pregnant. You need to set up an appointment with a gynecologist if you have not already.

Answer 7

Well sweety if you have been haveing sex since you were 14,,then why would you be asking this type of question now??,,what do you think??And besides if you are haveing sex with different boys every night then more then likely they are just useing you.

Answer 8

first I just hope you are using protection.. If you are having regular sex with various young men, you could end up with any thing from thrust to crabs, or a more serious sexual transmitted disease. Boys may well use you.. you need to look at what it is your are looking for and why? I would suggest talking to connexions or a youth counsellor.. I speak from experience, Ti's a hard question to discuss in an open forum such as this.. you need to take care of your self, emotionally and health wise Hun.

Answer 9

It's a little odd that a girl as young as you are is having so much sex with so many different guys. Most grown women don't even do that so much. What's up with you? Are you really happy, I'd guess the answer is no. Take care of yourself, you're going to regret this later, you should really try to focus your attention on positive things.

Answer 10

from my point of view,you are a 16 years old girl developing to adultness but you concentrate more on the sex appeal. No doubt it's not wrong,but it's still not right. You having fun doing it?Why not try some other adult things that you can think of instead of sex all the way.Maybe you could try this.Instead of having sex on most nights,try to dodge the temptation for a week and explode your desire on weekend night.You'll feel the different and it might change your mind to sex weekly.

Answer 11

For yourself, you are forcing the production of hormones that you body is not yet ready for. Females don't reach full maturity until age 24, males at age 30. Get pregnant, and even if you get an abortion, you will have still damaged your immune system, leaving yourself open to early breast cancer, as well as other cancers.
Birth control can help, in a limited way, to prevent pregnancy, gut you are still feeding chemicals into your body which are designed primarily for adult women over 24.
If you are having sex with boys around your age, they are increasing their chances of developing testicle cancer, which is the #1 form of cancer for males age 15 to 35. It's not a STD, but is one of the hundreds of cancer viruses humans carry and are immune to. The early sexual activity damages that immunity. Treatment involves the removal of the affect testicle(s), followed by radiation treatment, but only if caught early. Caught late and they slowly go insane as the Cancer migrates to eat away the brain, and suffocate when it reaches the lungs.