I am on deployment and my wifes birthday is today, its her 21st........ Should I be worried? or am I just being stupid?
2006-08-20 23:18:18 · 11 answers · asked by hoebag82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your on deployment and if you are worried about it there is nothing you can do about it anyways cause you are too far away deal with these things when you come home you will make yourself sick to death with worrying trust her and call her if you can good luck
2006-08-20 23:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a good person then she will understand you gotta do what you gotta do. At least try to call her and send her a card and present in the mail. Better late than never. I think its ok to be a worried a lil but don't make it a total trust issue. Everyone wants to have fun on their 21 birthday and its cool as long as she doesn't take it to far and cheats.
2006-08-20 23:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~I Don't Love Him Anymore~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her 21st - my bet is that she will probably party, drink a little (or a lot) and enjoy herself. But I think I'm right if I say that she will not do anything that se may regret or that may jeopardise your marraige.
1 Question to you: Why haven't you been worried before? Why only on her 21st? That day isn't much different from any other day!
2006-08-20 23:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sune' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need if your missus is staying with your folks, But if she's staying by herself and no baby to take care ,, Aheeeeemmmm. Kidding. Dont you trust her? Why you suspect something fishy going on? Heard the latest grapevine from your town eh? Well you know your wife more than we do. So what can u say?
2006-08-20 23:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by shannon s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If lack of trust was ever an issue between the two of you as far as infidelity... I'd be a worried. Then again, trust is the basis of marriage.
Give her the benefit of the doubt.
2006-08-20 23:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by OldyMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of corse your not being stupid,,everyone turns 21,,.As her husband,,be there for her and let her know you love her and are happy that she is of leagal age.You will see that if you are happy with her,,she will have a great birthday,,she may even surprise you.
2006-08-20 23:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by ladydi_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what sort of person your wife is. If you think you need to be worried, perhaps there's good reason for it.
2006-08-20 23:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Katia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, be happy, and be strong, and America comes first. Defend our nation
2006-08-20 23:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worried,try to email her or call her.
2006-08-20 23:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess now is the time to put the big marriage word to the test............. TRUST!!!!
2006-08-20 23:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by babygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋