the bag isn't even wet but my feeble attempts to punch my way out are no good. the affiar is so long term that i rely on the opportunity to try new things and be on my terms at anytime of the day or night. selfish i know but the other woman accepts it and claims to be grateful for 5% rather than none. i don't even really like the experience, the face or body. but the feeling of being somewhere i shouldn't makes it seem intense. it has led me to make passes at 4 other women and 2 of them caved in and i have had experiences with both but havent done the deed yet, only oral. i don't believe i want my wife or my home but i definately don't want these wanton women. stuck in the middle. down & out.
2006-08-20 23:07:18 · 12 answers · asked by Hattori Hanzo 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Your problem is that you are making the problem with people who are much like yourself. The situation dictates that it is you that has issues. You will never be happy until you deal effectively with what is surely your own ability to cope and not to deal with your inadequacies. You can try therapy before you throw your home and marriage down the toilet. Get into therapy before you destroy yourself, the other women and your family. Do not just chalk this up to being stuck...you have control over your own actions. Believe me you can not find happiness at the expense of others. Good luck!
2006-08-20 23:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if part of you wants your cake and eat it.. need to know your partner is there, but want to test the water else where. you say "haven't done the deed yet, only oral" this is part of the deed! be honest with your self and your partner.. if you want no relationship, a different relationship, a Gay relationship, a cassual relationship, other women, a friendship then own that, what is clear is you don't want your marriage, first step is to sort that out.. Move out, be honest, will be better for you both in the long run? I think this is what you are asking?
2006-08-20 23:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by dianafpacker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you want in life? Do you want to be married to and spend your life with someone you aren't devoted to and never feel true love because of all these "affairs"? Or do you want to break free and keep practicing for a while until you are ready to settle down with someone who means the world to you? Someone who gives you that intense feeling even when you are in the exact spot that you should be? You're not stuck in the middle you just have to discover what you want and come clean to yourself and your wife about it, do you love her? x
2006-08-20 23:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexaholics Anonymous.
http://www.sa.org/
2006-08-20 23:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend a little time away from all of them and get your sh!t together.
Stay in and have a tug....are you that needy that you will just settle for anything?
There's a lot to be said for self help in situations like these!
2006-08-20 23:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a question? Try making it into a question and some of the wise souls, and fools on her may have been of more help
2006-08-20 23:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by intotrouble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the world a favor and jump off a bridge goof
2006-08-20 23:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by guy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about turning your sexual desires towards men (Not me) after all you seem to be totally Fucked up.
2006-08-21 10:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sort you life out only you can do it
2006-08-21 03:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by johnstrangey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the dickens are you blitthering on about??
2006-08-20 23:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by Morph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋