help, what should i do?
he only thinks of sex
2006-08-20 23:05:18 · 38 answers · asked by the awakening 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Tell him frankly that a relationship does not consist of SEX alone. There's intellectual and medical side of it, to name a few. TOO MUCH OF EVERY THING IS POISON.
2006-08-28 08:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Soul Sis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be a jerk, i am too sometimes. Just think, every "guy" can be a jerk sometimes and it is "natural". Some more than others. BUT if you think he is a jerk because "he only thinks of sex" that doesnt make him a jerk - it makes him a man - it's called testosterone. It's the equivalent of HcG (the hormone that goes out of whack during your menstrual cycle) which gives you an excuse to be "cranky" when you are on your period. NOW, remember dont have sex with him if you do not want to, but when you get married, you must do it every night and sometimes before work
2006-08-24 10:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jim Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, he's NORMAL!
You must be young if this is a problem. Well, when you grow up you will understand that it's ok to not only think about sex all the time, but to do it too!
All men think about sex, if they say they don't they're lying!
Just because he's a normal healthy male who thinks about sex, doesn't make him a jerk. You're a jerk for thinking there's something wrong with HIM!
Get over your virginity already and wake up to the real world, little girl!
2006-08-26 08:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by gift_of_the_dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys maybe jerks, but if you do get to know the otherside you will appreciate it. and if he only thinks of sex, well thats normal for anyguy, atleast he is letting you know the truth. Don't worry after you give him some he will either stick with you for other things or leave you. That depends on what type of a jerk he is
2006-08-20 23:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by 0_0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't treasure you and lift you up to feel wonderful with him, then he doesn't deserve you..I don't see how you can possibly love someone who doesn't consider your overall happiness..you are more likely to be addicted to the idea of loving him.
There is surely another man out there who will appreciate and want to enjoy all that you have to offer - but, you will never find him as long as you waste your time, energy and emotions on someone you feel is a jerk!!
2006-08-28 06:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only thinks of sex then he is just using you. Once he gets what he wants he will move on to his next conquest and you will be left feeling worse than you feel now. Feeling used up is a BAD feeling ,,, don't let yourself go there. Your not in love - your infatuated with the bad boy in him. Love is about mutual respect. Wait till the nice guy comes along.
2006-08-28 12:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU REALLY NEED TO MAKE SURE HE IS A JERK, IF THAT'S THE CASE AND YOU REALLY LOVE HIM YOU NEED TO DECIDE IF THIS IS SOMEONE YOU WANT TO KEEP OR LET GO. WELL, YOU ALREADY SAID YOU ARE IN LOVE. THE QUESTION IS CAN HE CHANGE ,CAN YOU FIX HIM? TAKE HIM TO DINNER AND TELL HIM WHAT IT IS THAT YOU FEAR THE MOST ABOUT HIM AND SEE IF HE CARES ENOUGH TO CHANGE THOSE THING OR EVEN WILLING TO WORK ON THEM. IF THE CONVERSATION TURNS OUT POSITIVE THEN KEEP HIM, IF NOT LET HIM GO . YOU SOUND YOUNG YOU DO NOT HAVE TIME TO TRAIN HIM. GET YOU SOME WHO WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY. ENJOY YOUR LIFE DO NOT SPEND IT WITH A JERK.
2006-08-26 11:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy then you need to leave him before it gets any further! Most men think about sex a lot more than most women (except ones like me) and they can be respectful about it still. If you have talked to him about his behavior and still refuses to show you the respect you deserve then get rid of him and find someone that will give you the respect you deserve. Life is meant to be Happy but problematic. Don't encourage more problems by staying with someone that makes you unhappy.
2006-08-26 06:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Janet J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how old are you and what is your interpretation of your relationship with the jerk? Is he a pervert? Doe he have psychological problems? Many questions to ask yourself and think of your safety. Or run and protect your family. Possible predator. Possible pedophile.
2006-08-28 18:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by rebeccau31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are the jerk, if he is not f*ucking around and just f*uckling you. You girls are always complaining. I would just say that you should try to understand him, if you cannot or do not want to and it does not work out , leave him. Do not keep asking this stupid question to other f#ucking people.
2006-08-27 15:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by cyberfantoosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋