there's a gentlemen whom is a family friend who is known to us as 'CUZ', he is a fun guy he and my sisters were partying/runnin' buddies many years ago thru today,i am younger so i was not able to hang with them back then.Now i am of age and CUZ(the fun guy)and i seems to find each other interesting. And in d last few weeks we try to begin a secret/personal relationship that i at first wanted to keep silent due to the possible comments/opinions i'm sure my older sisters would want to share with me due to their knowledge of him from their past party lifestyles,During one of our many phone chats this guy informed me he and one of my sisters has been physically closer than i knew but no relationship grew they were only playin' each other years ago,this bothers me even though we are only platonic friends, N our earlier chats we discussed taking our relationship up a level however, its a NO-NO(to me)due to his experience with my sis,i want to continue chatting, do i MENTION 2MY SIS?
2006-08-20 22:57:12 · 6 answers · asked by Ballin B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IT'S BEST NOT TO HIDE ANYTHING. IT WILL EVENTUALLY COME OUT. IT MAY NOT BE ANY ONES BUSINESS BUT AT LEAST U PUT IT OUT THERE. ANOTHER THING IS THAT IF THERE IS ANY CONFUSION ABOUT IT YOU STATED UR SIDE 1ST. SINCE YOU MENTIONED IT EVERYONE WILL KNOW YOU HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE. BESIDES IF HE ISN'T TELLING THE TRUTH ON THE MATTER THEN UR SIS CAN MAKE U AWARE OF HOW THIS GUY REALLY IS.IF IT WAS NOTHING IT WON'T BE A BIG DEAL. IF IT WAS IT MIGHT BE A BIG DEAL. THEN U JUST KNOW HE ISN'T HONEST!!! WHO'D WANT HIM THEN ANYWAY???
2006-08-20 23:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by miss renee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would run because this man is going to cause trouble between you and your sister. The fact that he was intimate with your older sister should also serve as a big deterrent. Do you really want your sister's leftovers. I don't think I would be able to do that because I would constantly see them together in my head or wonder whether he is comparing me to my sister. I think also that you should tell her what is going on - what if they are still intimate and you get involved. You will be hurt, your sister will be hurt and he will be acting all innocent.
2006-08-20 23:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by CLEVER 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he was intimate with your older sister should also serve as a big deterrent. Do you really want your sister's leftovers.
RUN LIKE HELLL
2006-08-27 04:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by robs_princess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes !! There could be things you need to know about him before getting involed with him!!! If he liked my sister then i wouldn't want him!!!!!
2006-08-26 18:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by sports_runner_racing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u tell to ur sister. guys are opportunist. wipe and go.
2006-08-20 23:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by safa_ob2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes honey sure you should tell your sister about and see what she says!
2006-08-20 23:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by dario 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋