Have you ever been hurt by someone you love? The cheating, or insult or some other way? Have you forgiven them? I mean if someone made a mistake and is very sorry about it isn't it fare to forgive them? Don't love anymore but at least talk to them? Be friends etc. No?
2006-08-20 22:56:21 · 27 answers · asked by Safia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes but it was really hard to do.
2006-08-20 23:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I've been hurt before by someone I love and more than once. Forgiveness comes with time though it's hard to get over the hurt. Yeah it's fair to forgive when they really regret what they did. Everyone makes mistakes. We should forgive all the time but that doesn't mean things will go back to being the way they were before they hurt you.
If you find you can't trust them again because of their mistake or you can't love them because of it, it doesn't mean you haven't forgiven them. You might not be as close as you once were but you can still talk to them and be friends with them.
2006-08-20 23:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sindri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is unfaithful I think I will just accept him as a fren or if we are in argument and he said something rude in a folly, I will also forgive him but insisit on an apology.... however, if he beats me... then the r/s is over cos this kind of guy is not fit to love me and does not know what is call love...
in any case, human err and if he does not repeat the mistake, I think i can still forgive but if he repeats it.. i will end the r/s and cont to be frens....
2006-08-20 23:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive and I actually have forgiven, but to forget and to continue to be friends with that person is a different thing altogether. What kind of friend would that person make if they lied or couldn't respect me when we were together, if they changed maybe, but I wouldn't be the one trying to change that person.. I would forgive, but I wouldn't allow myself to be hurt by that person again and when you harbor unforgiveness in your life, it brings you down, not the other person. Be Blessed!
2006-08-20 23:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People forgive but never forget, that's what makes you stronger as a person. You remember the things that hurt to make you less venerable for it to happen again. This is how we can forgive and move on.
2006-08-20 23:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u do eventually forgive ppl like that., obviously not straight away maybe after a period of time. but if u break up with someone and u give them another chance and they cheat on u again,then u should not forgive them , and u should never see that person again. everybody deserves a second chance.
2006-08-20 23:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have moved on and regained your self respect, why get involved with that person on any level? I mean you can be polite to them but the communication should be distant. Why do you need to forgive them? It hap pend, its over and such is life. There is no need. You are a better person now, you have moved on and that's what they need to do.
If they feel that bad tell them to forgive themselves and be happy.
2006-08-20 23:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still chat to my first love we was not even going out with each other but I loved him and he told me he loved me to but I now know he never he was the first guy I had sex with but he was having sex with everyone I did not know this at the time.
Then I sleeped with him and found out a month later he had a girlfriend I just did not know what to do in the end I told his girlfriend what was going on.
He found out came afther me and beat the hell out of me.
2 years went on and he said sorry to me I forgive him but Ill never look at him the same again but do you know what I still love him deep down so just shows Iv not got over him but Id never do any think in that way with him again and he knows it and he hates it lol
His smile his words do nothink for me and he don't get that well good on me that's what I say :)
2006-08-20 23:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Foxy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have forgiven my soon to be ex husband! I think when you love someone how can you not forgive them? If its true love anyway!
2006-08-20 23:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by blossomingcactus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I forgive people. I'm able to laugh about it now and don't hold any grudges. I didn't remain friends with them but when I see them at a store or wherever and they speak, so do I.
2006-08-20 23:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have forgiven my girlfriend, because I love her more than my-self even she cheated me. Now I am not in contact with her, I am trying to forget her. She used me to achieve her goal, so she does not deserve for my True Love. This is a big lesson for me now... Love really Painful....
2006-08-20 23:22:42 · answer #11 · answered by Moses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋