I just dont like my life cuz lots of things have happend. I dont believe in myself and i have no confindence and cant do anything by myself. I have felt like this since April. I need help and dont know wat to do. I ask ppl for help but i dont get the right answers on things i can do. I have no way for me to believe in myself cuz of things that happened in my life. I cant trust many ppl cuz friends have screwed me over. I cant trust myself cuz i dont make good choices. Lately i havent cared about wat happens to me and i cant do anything anymore. I dont sleep cuz i have too much on my mind. I dont know if any of this makes sense but if u understand it and know anything that might help, let me know. It will be greatly appericated.
Thank You
2006-08-20 22:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by nicholas_schmucker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I just dont like my life cuz lots of things have happend. I dont believe in myself and i have no confindence and cant do anything by myself. I have felt like this since April. I need help and dont know wat to do. I ask ppl for help but i dont get the right answers on things i can do. I have no way for me to believe in myself cuz of things that happened in my life. I cant trust many ppl cuz friends have screwed me over. I cant trust myself cuz i dont make good choices. Lately i havent cared about wat happens to me and i cant do anything anymore. I dont sleep cuz i have too much on my mind. I have a psychairst, 2 school counslers, a best friend, and a teacher. I talk to all of them all the time but nothing seems to help. Everyone says things will get better but they have said that for 4 years and it still hasnt happened. I dont know if any of this makes sense but if u understand it and know anything that might help, let me know. It will be greatly appericated.
Thank You
2006-08-20 23:07:16 · update #1
sorry about adding more things to the ones of you who have already answered the question and sorry that i put the same one twice. the second one has the addtional info and the first one is the same but with out the additonal thing.
i am really sorry
2006-08-20 23:08:50 · update #2
This is one of the phases in life. U will have troubles and worries like this. But ask urself.. r u getting too sentitive? Why are ur frens trating the way u think it is? why do u not have confidence? I asked myself manytimes why I am on this planet and why do I have a life. And manytimes I want to die cos I too have no confidence.. but u have to try to listen to urself and tell urself that u have the confidence and even of all the ppl oppose u .. u have urself to lean on. Frenship are bulit by trust and by time... did u spend enough effort to build all thses frenship or r u expecting too much from them... u cannot expect much when u are giving.. in a relastionship... cos giving is giving and not wanting to gain anything. in any case, what i can tell u is that, firstly, confidence have to come from within, find somthing or do something that u most know how to do to gain that confidence... and then the rest will fall in place.. and pls dun think so much.. u only have this life... dun spend half of ur life thinking of these useless things.. accept all this and take them as lessons learnt so that u will grow wiser and next time u know how to handle them... (frens that screwed u ) hope u have a wonderful life...!!!
2006-08-20 22:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
you know what? Don't be so down on yourself. Trust me- a lot of people don't understand what I go through too. My mom is a **** I don't have a dad, and a whole bunch of my 'friends' screwed me over. But don't worry- I turned to God. Because I couldn't trust myself, I didn't know what the hell I was doing. I didn't know where else I was supposed to go. But, one day- I went to a local church. They greeted me with kindness- and this, this God they were praising, who was He? What was He? And you know what? I learned that He loves me- He love YOU. Seriously- look at your life now, what can YOU do to make it better? First, understand what you want to do with your life, and then ASK GOD. Ask Him what course you should go through, tell Him that you need someone to support you. I know it sounds phoney- but it's true. Don't hide yourself in the dark, because soon- all the shadows will be removed, and you'll find your way. Believe in Him, and yourself- just ask and you will receive, seek and you will find.
2006-08-20 23:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by bratworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you feel like this. The good news is that things can only get better. I know from experiance, i was on depression tablets from the age of 13 to 23. If you want anyone to talk to then mail me at zan23rd@yahoo.co.uk.
It will get better.
2006-08-20 22:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... we go through different phases in life... it is just a bad phase for you... and it is going to go away... i can gurantee that..
meanwhile dont think much.. do something physical..sweat sweat sweat.,. start taking basketball lesson, go swimming, join a gym and give yourself a target of shaping up ur body... it reallly works.. physical exhaustion radically heals mental bruises... go n get physical..
i understand your mental state. i have been through it... something has made you bankrupt of your self-confidence. but you can restore it. love yourself and love others.. think about those children in the war-torn Iraq, Lebanon or Africa... why not doing some voluntary work... contact WHO, Save The Children, Unicef, BRAC,iCross or other institutions like that, you will recover from the loss only by love and not by contemplating on it.. best of luck!!
2006-08-20 23:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by [ rapunzel ] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there are depressed days and times or people who suffer depression. Believe me there is a difference! I not sure how bad you are. I do suggest you tell a Doctor, Councilor or Parent. You sound very troubled. Life really will get better. Please confide your troubles in someone who can help.
2006-08-20 23:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My simple advice to you .. is to get to the first approachable love relation with a passionate woman who can contain your surrow feelings .. get married as soon as you can .. new marriage changes all the peson's mood .. and pushes him to new values and levels of life appealing and ambition ..
2006-08-20 23:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by ohwaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have almost the same problem..you know,i think its a part of life.im just convincing myself that it will just pass and later ill be on the top..sometimes,i wanna kill myself coz im so tired carrying those problem that i have but ive realised that there are people out there who had a bigger loads than we have..i juz wanna say to you don't lose hope and don't 4get to pray..hes in there ready to help us....
2006-08-20 23:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by marichusiarot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to figure out what's behind all of your misery and figure out how to deal with it in a healthy and positive manner.
You should get into counseling.
2006-08-20 22:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Bruce D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem is dificult to be resolved in one answer,. But, you must try this:
make a score.
who are you
old are
facts
good and weong
and try to think and meditate what do you want to be.
psichic
fisic
socia
then you must unthersstunde that
nobody is perfect
nobody want to be wrong, but it happened
all aof us try to be good, loved and apreciate.
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welll? where are rthe problem, then?
in comunication
signals
ideas
opinion and receptions the signals for some else
try to untherstand who you are and accept that you are good , but you cant see that.
please, write me, to ask you some punctual question. thank you
2006-08-20 23:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by floaremica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are all depressed . even if we arent juts a matter of time till. we are. just have tokeep plugging away and make yourself get through each day
2006-08-20 22:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by guy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋