well i caught her sending emails about me to my best friend zac and it said i was upsetting her and that i was worrying her i asked her why she was sending emails to zac about me and she told me i was worrying her and wouldn"t tell me why i was worrying her i kept asking my she yelled at me to mind my own buisiness and well it is my buisiness and then i asked zac and he told me to mindmy own buisiness as well> help me i"m a very confused gal
2006-08-20 22:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had a bit of trouble similar to this. Maybe she thinks you and her are drifting apart but she doesn't feel like she can tell you or maybe she's having other problems with you that she's trying to work out without involving you (because she might be afraid that revealing it to you will break your friendship) and she has to talk to someone else about it so it might as well be another close friend Zac. Has anything major happened which has affected either one of you? Like a new boyfriend or something in the family or anything?
When you confronted her about it (she's not a person who hates confrontation is she?) she may just not have been ready to speak to you about it.
As for Zac, he's being a good friend to her by keeping her problems confidential until she's ready to talk about it with you because it's really between you and her and he's just support for her. Try not to pin Zac in the middle though.
2006-08-20 22:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sindri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shld cool down a bit and think about ur relationship with her and zac. is she really trying to spoli ur relationship with u and zac? if both of them want to have a form of allengience of their own without including u , i think u shld stay away from them. or r they hinting to u that u shld stop bothering them? maybe the 3 of u shld sit down and talk clamly and find out the matter rather than u jumped to conclusion and ended in a confused state.
2006-08-21 05:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is quite clear from both of ur frnd's and zac's behaviour that they both are into something and they won't let u know about it! i think they are seeing each other or going out together!
so in my opinion u ask them clearly and if they are into something..............then get aside! let them do what they want to do!
2006-08-21 06:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don be nervous.., don be angry too. jus be as u were earlier n wen tit comes to the discussion of dat matter jus stay quite n dem 1 question "Do u think wat i did was wrong"...ur prob ll be solved. wishin u gud luck
2006-08-21 05:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by abi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but my guess is you're doing drugs. Stop.
2006-08-21 05:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just wait it out and let them tell you and it is your business too, their just being immature
2006-08-21 05:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by OkieOk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋