Been married for 5yrs, cheated on women i lost count on!i loved my wife and still do, BUT my **** goes mad! do not wot to DO!
2006-08-20 22:38:02 · 23 answers · asked by imran k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you have a sex addiction, you need to get help. Apparantly it's a real addiction, hope you sort it out.
2006-08-20 23:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility!
Your penis doesn't have a brain, and you are not a slave to it, YOU chose to sleep with these people, you chose to cheat. You should start accepting that you chose to do it. Clearly it's not making you very happy so why on earth are you sleeping with these other women.
You must accept that you have control and you choose to do these things before you can begin to choose not to do them and be AWARE and in control of your actions. it is entirely possible that you have some form of sexual addiction. A problem like this can seriously damage your marriage and you must accept that you have a problem and that you can choose not to act destructively before you can stop this alarming pattern of infidelity.
This could involve a long and probably very painful conversation with your wife. You must be honest with yourself however even if you can't be honest with those around you.
Try looking here for help or see you doctor - they will be able to refer you to a sex therepist.
http://www.sarr.org/
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2006-08-20 22:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your wife and cant stop being unfaithful, do the right thing give her the house, car , and get lost out of her life if cheating is all you live for, because it seems like you have got it all and don't want it. if you are bored with your wife go back to the courting stage with her and revive what is missing, if that's not the answer, it seems you just love the honeymoon period in a relationship. you don't really love your wife! you love whats in your PANTS>!!!!!!!!!!!! sad person....
2006-08-20 22:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by cute-t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your poor wife a favour and get the hell out of her life so she can find a man who'll treat her with love and respect. You say you love her, how can you repeatedly hurt someone like that if you love them? The world could do without men like you, but if you have to share this planet with decent people, at least stay single so you can f**k around and pick up diseases without hurting another person. Grow up and find something more meaningful to do than sticking your nob in trampy women.
2006-08-20 22:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be keeping secrets from your wife if you love her. You don't even love her if you cheated on her. Get some serious help from a counseller. Isn't your wife satifying you? You are such a dirty, flirtatious, lying,sex addict!!! Give it up, man. no woman is worth your dick.
2006-08-20 23:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by booboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up be a man. Quit whining about being a louse.
You are telling us your dick runs your life? You are saying that the brain in your little head is bigger than your other one. What a pathetic creature you must be. You get no sympathy from this quarter.
2006-08-20 23:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip. If you really love your wife you wouldn't have cheated in the first place. Learn to control yourself you horn dog. Its a disgrace that you haven't told your wife.
2006-08-20 22:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you owe it to your wife to be faithful.
if she cheated what you do?
i take it your marraige vows meant nothing to you.
in every religion respect and trust are very important
if you dont respect or trust yourself.
no-one else will
grow up
it is not just your wife s life you will ruin it is all your and her family
keep thing locked up and enjoy your wife instead.
2006-08-20 23:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by purple diamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your wife and want to straighten out then teach your **** to go mad with your wife ONLY!
2006-08-21 03:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by Archangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling.
2006-08-20 22:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋