Well considering the traditional approach by the people, husband is always considered to be elder and wife younger. Even the age gap of 5-6 years between husband and wife is valid but if wife is one years older than husband. It may create a big havoc in Indian society thinking. I want to ask you what do you think can be thephysical, emotional, psychological & social persectives behind the age gap of husband & wife.
Does it creates any disturbance if husband is 25 and wife is 30.
2006-08-20 22:29:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im 28 and my man is 38 and we have a lot in common more in common then guys my age he is well established and fixing to retire and has his life in order, we are very compatible and to make the situation better im madly in love with him and have been for two years and it keeps getting better and as far was what people think i dont care im happy and he is too, i dated a guy that was like 24 and he was very imature and was an idiot he had college degree and own house and was very stable but very imature so i think a younger man for a woman would cause a great disturbance
2006-08-20 23:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think age difference is that important in any culture. If love and respect to each other has already develope even before marriage, i dont see that is much problem. I married an indian and have 2 girls. We known each other for 6 yrs before we decided to get married, not that our age difference is only 1 yr. But I have friends that married age different of 4 yrs between the man is younger than the wife, and hes indian ans wife is english.
Now they already have 2 kids. Both parents have no problem with them. All of this is up to you both no society will think otherwise. Emotional,psychological,social persectives is only you are thinking about it (in your mind). You are the man of the house, so act like one.
2006-08-20 23:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Liza S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age gap should be at least 7 years.
If it is less, you will feel frustrated after
one year of marriage, when she responds
negatavily for regular sex as per the normal
biological needs.
Women are always 5 years older than
their actual age- in terms of maturity
and need for sex.They tend to fall sick soon after sexual
affairs with husbands
If the husband is younger, and the wife
is unable to meet his sexual requirements,
then the husband would look for
Extra Marital affairs with other women
or even visit prostitutes for his biological needs.
.
2006-08-21 01:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by pianist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In India , it is considered essential that the groom be a few years older than the bride -- this might be because of a variety of differences that exist between the sexes :--
a) women attain puberty before men ,
b) women age a bit quicker than men ,
c) men, in the traditional role of Provider , take some time to establish themselves career--wise , before they are ready for marriage . Today , an ideal difference might range from 3 to a maximum of 5--6 years , anything more might deny true companionship .
2006-08-20 22:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by flagovictory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compatibility is very important. there are many other factors which are very important. men should have at least 2-5 years elder than women . more than 5 years will bring generation gap. husband may try to treat wife like a child. some men who are dominant choose even 7-10 years younger girl with motive to suppress them. women are mentally or physically well matured than men. women will think 10 years in advance( whom to marry, house, children etc.)
2006-08-21 00:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while the wife is 30 and the husband 25 there's no problem but when they get older it will be a problem when she's 50 and her husband is 45 ! he's a young man and she's not. Face it women gets older than men
2006-08-20 23:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by mariam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age is important at all but maybe in Indian society it is not accepted. In Western society it really doesn't matter at all. I am going to marry a man 7 years younger than myself in 2 months time. I also look much younger than my age and look after myself so I don't think it wll ever be an issue unless you let it.
2006-08-20 22:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men take longer to mature and gorw up into resposible and wise Men so a woman should always go for an older man so that she can have atleast a 90% stable relationship and also make good decisions togeather.
2006-08-20 22:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
adulthood point counts and makes a difference it constitutes how 2 people get alongside. a marriage is in accordance with lots greater, if 2 people communicate effectively. They each and each admire one yet another. Marriage is a dedication, and you the two might desire to have the termination to make it paintings. For greater desirable or worse. Is the individuals in touch mature adequate to comprehend that and try this, then it is going to paintings. Any marriage can succeed if the each physique is prepared and arranged to paintings in direction of that and continuously communicate in self belief to a minimum of one yet another and make judgements at the same time.
2016-10-02 08:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as many have said .. men are stupid when young [i am a man too]..... men take longer time to mature and shoulder responsibilities, after some time in relationship many men feel bored with their wives. men and women ahve different sexual drives because of many reasons.... though age should not matter when in love who is younger and who is older.... personally i feel man should be slightly older than a woman. it balances out in the later stages of life.
2006-08-21 00:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by guest 007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋