i had a group of friends and i had a fight so i left them and joined a new group of friends. The old group of friends keep wanting me to go back to been friends with them but i want to stay with my new group. But the new group think that the old group kicked me out but i left and i cant tell them that or they will hate me so how do i get the old group to leave me alone? And the new group are convincing me to go bak and be as good frends with them as i was but truely i hate them and dont want to see them again so is there anythin that i can do? Please help me because i dont know what i will do.
2006-08-20 22:24:34 · 8 answers · asked by sweetie pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be "friendly" with your old friends but only on an individual basis. If you feel more comfortable and supported with your new friends as a whole, stick with them. Don't fall back on old habits with your old friends. Who is to say they won't pull a fast one on you again? When friends (as a group) do something that angers you that is especially disturbing. Be wary of them. If I were you too, I would start to look for INDIVIDUAL friends who are supportive of you, not just those who are part of a specific group or clique. I'll tell you a secret about clique-friendships: Those friendships don't last.
2006-08-20 22:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must have been a pretty big fight if you hate them so much you never even want to see them again. Are you sure you're not just caught up in anger or hurt?
Before you do anything rash, tell them you need some time and some space because of the fight and if you really do decide that you can't have two groups of friends then by that time the old group will probably have given up on you.
2006-08-20 22:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sindri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie Pie, you are just TOO POPULAR! God, it must be nerve racking to have to deal with that many friends when most people would love to have one good friend. Dump them all and be a loner. Afterall, you have enough ego for the whole bunch of them! In otherwords, you are selfish and self-absorbed.
2006-08-20 23:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should keep both, the old & new friends. After having one fight I do not think that you should turn your back on the old friends.
2006-08-20 23:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by peterboro_first 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight and honest but in a nice way. No point in making them hate you even more. Good luck.
2006-08-20 23:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you need a job. please don't misunderstand, I'm not trying to be rude and there's alto of things that happen between friends that makes em not friends anymore, but i mean you know that sounds like a really involved story and you seem like one of those social climbers. again not trying to be rude, just trying to let you know that trying to impress people that aren't even paying you anything is pointless, if anything they should impress you if you have to impress them.
2006-08-20 23:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by hey_finny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not mean that u have to get rid of ur old friends.they can be just friends to u as before, ur new friends(according to me ) if they don't want u to get rid of ur old friends ask them why. in that case i think they are not so nice.but ur old friens will always be with u.
2006-08-20 22:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer burn your bridges. If One individual keeps battling for the friendship, shelter it with that one individual. you do no longer could cling out with the entire team, in basic terms spend time with the guy who keeps asking you lower back.
2016-09-29 12:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋