This is one of my top reasons for why i don't wish to have my own child.
We all know the world is such a hard place, so why do it?
My mental life has been hard for me. since i wasn't raised in poverty..everyone from a 3rd world country will laugh at me, saying i know nothing of a hard life. But i speak of mental/emotional challenges too. I know my life isn't that hard at all. it's a luxury to some of course.
Whenever i see a newborn i may feel sorry for it. I know that newborn will have a harder time in that new society to come than i have had. Don't you think they'll experience probably worse physical or emotional problems in their life than you will? And yes, that is part of life, so then why procreate at all? All i'd want to do is love that child, but i guess i mean love without the real world discipline..which they say isn't love. I want to see my offspring never suffer, never frustrate, never contemplate suicide, never be lonely. (yes i know i'm idealistic)
2006-08-20 22:12:26 · 6 answers · asked by ryan s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
how would it be not to see children anymore just old people nice as that sounds to some of us its not how life was intended , We as grownups only want what were not really capably of giving and that's protection from all of liefs troubles ,, happiness is having someone in your life to love and share things with and if there weren't anymore children the ones that are here now would go Thur life without a mate , i agree that some people shouldn't have kids there just not good enough to bring a life into the world but the ones that are hopefully do the best they can to give that life a good one without hurt but unfortunately life is ups and downs mental and physical pain that cant be avoided no matter how we protect and love our kids ,,So why do it is your question ,, why have sex if you don't intend to have children , that's a better question , most would answer that with a simple ,, because it feels so good and that's a pretty good answer ,, and the same can go for having kids ,,it just feels so right and good ..
2006-08-21 00:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not an idealist you have no faith! The laws of science and nature dictate that good will be countered by evil, happy by sad , rich by poor, love by hate, you get the picture. If everyone thought like you did and didn't take the steps to procreate life would be even worse, no laughter of children, no playing with babies, it would be a sad miserable existence, life is meant to be shared and God's opinion is life goes on with the baby!
2006-08-20 23:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion for me, it became that i had to have someone to love unconditionally and someone to love me an same way. i wanted the prospect to deliver a baby, my baby up in this variety of fashion that he would make this loopy international a more desirable helpful position. because that i'm very just about there, my son is 15, i visit actual say that i imagine he's turning out to be an excellent individual. the basically way we as a society, shall we make this international a more desirable helpful position to stay is through having children provided that you want them and would enhance them suited. those are the those who will make it more desirable helpful. to address the different stuff, about your hardships, my existence as a baby and early adulthood became through no skill rosy, yet i have stuck it out and now am an exceedingly satisfied and mentally adjusted individual. With help you'd be too. You sound depressed and regularly it would want to be really uncomplicated to allow the load of the international and it really is subject matters get to you, i comprehend it really is exceeded off to me. Please talk with someone about your thoughts. i desire you may earnings a brighter outlook on issues through doing this, it may't damage. Take care :)
2016-11-26 21:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by janzen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem to me that these people would think that their children can make this world a better place for all of us. Unfortunately, this is not always the case.
2006-08-20 22:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...just human with some powerful fathering instincts. There's nothing wrong with that.
2006-08-20 22:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i completely agree with you ,there is no reason that a baby born i never will have any child .and i think people have child because of their selfishness
2006-08-20 22:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by negar g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋