This is not told to by anyother person but i have observed, may be he is in luv wid me, but i dont want him as my boyfriend(lover) but i m ready to accept him as a friend. Please give suggestions.
2006-08-20 22:02:00 · 22 answers · asked by missT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
appect it.
2006-08-20 22:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by sabrina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi dear. u need to know certain things. u r simply assuming that he may be in love with you with his behaviour but not very sure. so dont let your self down by asking him abt it. always maintain your dignity and respect. Moreover you will meet several people in every stage of life who may makes you feel special and touch your heart in a very different way. so dont take a decision in such an early stage. let ur life take a better decision.. so leave it. if any day he proposes u then do as what ur heart say.
2006-08-21 01:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lallithambigai U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus!
Behave as a friend with him. If that doesn't work then explain to him that you can be a friend, but no more. Never be rude. Tell that calmly and normally or else you can hit him hard(that will not be good).
Concentrate on you own skills(study first), hobbies, likes etc. That will keep you distracted from his thoughts I hope.
2006-08-20 22:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by rivalslayer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confirm before hand, whether the likes you for a short period or it losts for a life time. Then you can decide.
If you want him just as a boy friend and not a lover, then you must avoid sex with him. but Boys like girls only for sex. They dont want girls for friendship when there is no sex involved.
Think and act.
2006-08-20 22:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r on the rite track. amm.... i think first of all u should confirm tht he is crazy 4 u n if he is but u r nt, mke him ur frnd. but knowing his luv 4 u, u r accepting him as a frnd........... tis is nt kool. instead if he's loving let him do take no care but be a frnd 2 tis guy. well ofcourse final words r urs so best of luck.
2006-08-20 23:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by princess is here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u are too young to think about all these things. first concentrate on Ur studies than u can think whether u have to make him a Friend or boyfriend.
but anyways if u want him to be like a friend i think it is like inviting problems. so better stay away from him.
2006-08-20 22:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmnneeeaa.. no mater how good of a friend he tries to be, he will still try to hock-up with you. Turning him down will wound him but it will certainly bust your ego.. however boys (young boys) fall in love all the time.. tomorrow he could fall for another chick
2006-08-20 22:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Marian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u dont like him in a diff way just as a friend and tell him if u end up likeing him later he will be the first to know
2006-08-20 22:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by michellemichellemichellemd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is the problem then. Be a friend to him - anyway I think all classmates are supposed to be friends.
I don't see any harm in that at all.
Go ahead and be a friend to him.
2006-08-20 22:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by sweetangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one should always 'love' the person who loves u .... . i'm finding this situation very good.. if the boy really loves u.... go on give it a try..... tell him to keep it as a secret ... and if the things dont work out well leave him ...
2006-08-21 01:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by RiCKeY.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept him as a friend. Friendshp is important.
2006-08-20 23:26:06 · answer #11 · answered by peterboro_first 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋