ive got a lot of problems at the moment and i need to convince my self that its not that bad. Do u hav any problems? How do u deal with them?
2006-08-20 21:17:04 · 19 answers · asked by muffin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone has problems .. just be thankful for the things you do have.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-20 21:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pay my bills because my work won't give more hours, can't seem to get pass the interview on any other jobs. Which sucks because
I'm great worker, in if fact I am rated the top employee not that their interested in giving me raise, my bills are just basic living expenses for the most. Gas Rent, Food, Electricity, Insurance on the car, not my health, phone. The net is my one luxury, My relationship with my boyfriend is going down the tubes, I am sick, and i can't sell my plasma, adding to the money problems, I am so stressed about the money issues it's messing up my period. And why can't I get a second job? I am a good worker.
I am depressed and sad.
It would be nice if tomorrow didn't come but will and I will get up go to work, and drive on until things are better and sun begins to shine again.
2006-08-21 04:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is ill he was diagnosed with cancer a year ago. He can't hardly make it through a week at work because he is so tired and has lost a lot of weight. I have 2 car notes a house note with a second mortgage and am paying for vinyl siding not including the regular bills. I love my husband but haven't been in love with him in years but can't leave now. I'm having an affair with a married man whom I have fallen in love with. My best friend died this year and now I have no one to talk to. I haven't been on a real vacation in two years. I just work and take care of my husband. I was molested as a child by a member of my family and have since disowned alot of them which haven't wanted to take sides. Everytime I go home and the molester comes over I'm not invited and still am the victim. But I am surviving everything one day at a time. That's all any of us can do. And just try to remember that what you think is bad may not be as bad as what someone else is going through.
2006-08-21 04:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had enough problems getting on with my life lately that I ended up getting a psych eval. I scored unsettlingly high on the psychotic deviancy scale. I'm convinced no one will ever love me and I will never be financially independent. My best friend won't call me back. I had to have my dog put to sleep three months ago and I can't stop missing him. Life ain't easy.
2006-08-21 04:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by juniperflux32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through the odd bad patch, so deal with each one one at a time, and you'll either be able to solve them or not do anything about them, in which case it won't be a problem anymore, just something you have to resign your self.
2006-08-21 04:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club, i've been suffering now for 16 weeks with Sciatica !!! it's the worst ailment i have ever had, the pain is indescribable, i would not wish it on anybody !!! and the pain killers do help a bit, but with them, there is the inevitable side effects, which mess your head up, so, i hope your problems arn't as bad as mine.
Good luck with your problems.
2006-08-21 04:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by what.ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hooked up with a friend recently, who I don't see so often. I told him of my woes at being constantly near the limit on my two overdrafts. He then told me about his £9K debt, and how he was 5 months behind on the rent.
Whilst feeling sorry for him, I did come away feeling a bit better!
As for dealing with ones problems - well, it's cliched, but I'm learning to focus on the positive, and take small steps every day...
2006-08-21 04:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's start with the greatest threat; that is the evil pixies waiting outside my window RIGHT THIS MINUTE for me to step outdoors so they can cut off all my hair and paint my toenails with crushed toadstools.
No, seriously, everyone has problems, some bigger than others.
I don't really like to talk about mine but some members of my family are very seriously ill and I have to look after them which isn't all that great.
2006-08-21 04:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my way of telling myself that i am not that bad is by telling myself that problems are always for humans and if there are no problems, i will not be human anymore but the almighty... and i know i cannot be God so i will just take one thing at a time and things will eventually be better.... i had my share of ups and downs too.... so hang on there and deal with them one at a time
2006-08-21 05:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by miaiskitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My problems:
a) I can't seem to meet any single girls that I want to date
b) I don't know what to do with my life
c) I hate my family and they cling to me like ivy, killing me softly
d) I have some kind of depression - I'm always bored and can't feel properly.
Happy now?
2006-08-21 04:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by solo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋