Does anyone else's partner basically come home eat and is on the lounge asleep by 7pm! and doesn't wake up til atleast 7am and finishes work at 4-5pm!
Mine does and it really pisses me off because i'm at home all day with 2 kids and kinda look forward to some one to talk to or even just watch tv with.
The other night he said he would watch our 8month old little girl while i had a shower and I came back after 15min to find her screaming with her feet stuck under a table right next to where he was lying and he was just snoring his head of!
the jerk goes to the club after work about 2-34 hrs before coming home too.
What do I do? It's lonely boring.... Lately i have just been using the time to talk to a guy i met a while ago... nothing else to do ( kids asleep)
2006-08-20 21:15:37 · 4 answers · asked by lolitapearla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yessss i have one just like you.This man can sleep 14 -16 hours a day i swear,hell tonight he has only beeen awake for 3 hours already asleep again he woke up at 8 pm im serious.Im like you i sit home all day with a 8 month old baby bored to death he gets home at 515 or 530 he comes straight in takes a shower i have to walk in the bathroom to even talk to him after he walks right by me and steps over our son when he walks in the door without one word not hello hi ive missed you nothing then when he gets out its whats for supper he eats then 15 minutes the ****** is fallin asleep on the couch and thats where he stays till he goes to bed whenever he decides to wake up.He dont even watch our son or play with him 5 minutes im trying to cook or clean or do clothes and i have to run in the living room cause all i hear is our son screaming cause he has either fell or is trying to wake him up and he doesnt like being alone so he cries and all he is doing is sleeping omg do i go off on him im so sick of his lazy a**!!Sex is almost nil maybe once every weel or heck sometimes once every 2 weeks its always im tired my tooth hurts my back hurts always some stupid lame reason he is sleeping.He is only 35 he acts like he is a 60 year old man god only knows how he will be acting when he is 40 im afraid to find out.I cant even trust him alone with our son cause he cant stay awake and im afraid my son will get hurt cause he has ib the past and this sorry piece of crap acts like when he does its no big deal and i shouldnt be mad hell he gets mad at me for saying something to him about it.Im just at my witts end im so alone here and only coversation i have is with a 8 month old baby and my 13 year old daughter im getting very lonely and bored i told him the other day if he didnt change i was either going to find someone else or just cheat and never tell him a thing about it ive been dealing with this for 3 years almost and im soo done with him.I have men all the time wanting me im a very good looking women and i love sex want it daily im a nice person and im very fun to be around every one thinks im so cool so he has nooooooooo excuses for his behavior all i can say is he is snoozing and he is about to loose !!So girl i feel your pain and i dont blame you a bit for talking to someone else i wish ya luck and have fun cause im about to start !!
2006-08-20 21:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to this guy again until you leave your husband, if you do.
To me it sounds like he's probably cheating on you. Married men are NOT gone that long "clubbing" if they're not dating other women. He sounds very very selfish and uncaring and non-commited. I suggest you ask him right out, "are you seeing any other women and have you had sex with any other woman or man?"
You should be able to tell if he's lying to you or not.
My husband was kind of like that for awhile. I have no idea if he was cheating on me or not cuz he lies all the time and it's hard to read him, but he changed everything real quick when I told him that I'll be moving out soon and into my mom's house with his two kids (he hates his inlaws and their messy house). Soon now he doesn't sleep as much and he wants sex with me almost every day! I love it! He's been conversing with me better lately, too. Otherwise he sounded just like your husband, minus the clubbing part (he hates clubbing, thank goodness).
Good luck!
I'm sorry for you!
And especially sorry for your little kids! They need an intact home, but they don't have their daddy as it is it sounds like.
Call Dr Laura at 1-866-DRLAURA and ask her. You can call anywhere from about 12:30pm-4:00pm MTN Standard Time in the US. Or write her from her website at http://www.drlaura.com
good luck honey!
2006-08-20 21:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..firstly, ur husband sleeps a lot, mayb too much..secondly get him to cut down on his clubbing time. Mayb he doesn't even know what u feel, sounds like u 2 need to sit down n talk. Get him to set aside some time for u at least every week.
2006-08-20 21:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by I dunno wad to do.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
were did you find him? you schould have seen that before you got married
2006-08-21 03:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by lost in space 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋