he is a muslim and im a sikh girl.v cant get married bcoz of this reason and also my parents will not accept me if i get married to him.v cant get married in Iran bcoz the govt here will kill a muslim if he or she changes there religion.plz help me
2006-08-20 21:08:56 · 29 answers · asked by sheep_6pe6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have heard that you will have to convert to Islam before marrying into a Muslim family.
If religion is not that improtant to you, you may simply go ahead and get married. But I am guessing from the way you ask the question it is somewhat of an issue.
You should research the Sikh religion before you takethe plunge. In teh worst case scenario remember that you are never a Sikh by BIRTH but by CHOICE.
2006-08-21 12:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not change ur Religion for love affair easily. I hope if u do then marriage may not take place. But even if he is in Love with u as well u should not change R for that only . similarly with his case.
Being a Muslim i advise u really to study teachings of Islam, and as Indian u will find many things good in Islam that deserves and convince one person to adopt .
On other hand Islam allow follower mails to get married to others from some religions like Christians and Jews.
i wish u best of luck .
2006-08-20 21:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by kind_enough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get serious girl. All this "eloping" and "do what your heart says" and "go to a country where there is religious freedom" is all good to hear (and may be nice to see in movies).
Unless you realise your talent and his talent, and unless you are confident that you can live without any support from anyone, dont marry him as such. It would only be a living hell to you after the marriage, when the society keeps you far away from them (and even worse, when they take revenge on you).
There is however on way. If your family supports you, then he can come to your home country and change his religion and live with you, get a job and then take care of your family. OR if his family is supportive, you can convert to his religion and live there.
2006-08-20 21:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by Netarget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to face reality its your country and your religion
and he is a Muslim and Muslim have there own religion to just like your country does this is some thing you cant change no matter what you do and just like you said he is just a boy and not a man and you are just a girl and not a women yet so give your self some time you well meet the right person in time that god well find for you. you need to let your boy friend go his way and you go your way because it not worth it your government well kill him god bless you.
2006-08-20 21:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The solution is in your hand.
Muslim Men can marry any woman from any relegion, but she has to be a kind, good person.
Real Muslims are not allowed to change their relegion, if they do, they counted as non-relegion.
Do your lover wants to change his relegion? Or you guess so, if yes, and he lives in Iran, so no way, he has to move and live with you in a non-islamic country.
He is muslim, and wants to marry you, there is no problem, if you can convince your parents with.
You are not able to convince your parents, and you are not able to leave parents and live with him, then better you don't marry, as you have to trust the person you are getting marry with that he will be able to protect you.
2006-08-20 21:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Totti Frotti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) Just living together and not get marry. You two may not work out for long time, why not just live together and see if you are right for each other.
2.) Relocate to other places where no one care about your religious differences.
3.) If too much pressure, just be friends and look for someone else. There are always someone out there.
2006-08-20 21:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a serious social problem. I have a Christian relative who married a Moslem woman, which caused lots of problems. I am an atheist, and the woman I love is a Baptist, so she won't marry me. My son is an atheist, and he married an atheist. Religions are the cause of many of the wars and social conflicts in the world today.
2006-08-20 21:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a choice you have to make. So far you have lived with your parents - and they matter the most. BUT if you cannot live without this guy, you will have to convert secretly - do not tell your parents now. Initially they will be angry, but with time everything will work itself out and in 4-5 yeras you will all be one big happy family.
2006-08-20 21:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by GauravGupta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move to the united states where you have freedom of choice and you each ccan have your own religion.
Being an American I just can't imagine liveing somewhere where there are such rules.
2006-08-20 21:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that much of your religion, live together and don't get married. If all else fails, become a catholic! They can marry anything.
2006-08-20 21:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by Denis D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋