my colleagues had it , are pressing me to have which my inner self says no.
2006-08-20 20:42:45 · 20 answers · asked by jagdish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well to me i think that it is wrong for you to have sex before you get married. The reason why is because i feel as if when you have sex it should be with someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with.
Also i think that when you make love with your true mate, the feeling is even more romantic because you know that he or she is the one.
2006-08-20 20:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mahealani 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If your inner self says no, then don't do it. It depends on people's mental make up, upbringings etc, because it seems your colleagues will lead you to a brothel.
2006-08-20 21:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With whom? with a girl you love and marry her?
Not OK.
For that to get experience, you can go to pros, if at all you are so inquisitive.
But for sex No Guru (Teacher) is required. That is one thing which does not need outside help or teaching or coaching.
Plenty of media is avilable now.
2006-08-20 20:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depend on your social invoirnment. But in india it is better to avoid if your inner concious does not permit
2006-08-20 21:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by narendra k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget it dear...if you keep on thinking about this you will definitely change your mind instead of no you will say yes so better forget it, divert your mind when ever you feel to have sex, think of something else or masturbate(not a good idea) do it if things are too difficult to handle. Never think of having sex its really unsafe and a mark on your attitude
2006-08-20 21:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by Vikram tHE iNDIAN 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont do this. It is illegal and unsafe for u.
Kept your suspence for your first night with ur wife. It will give u very much pleasure what u have not imagine.
So, Be Cool and wait for right time.
Cheers
2006-08-20 21:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sahil 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if i could do it all over again, I'd wait for that person who I'd marry. But do whatever you think is right for you, don't let others influence a decision that could effect how you feel about yourself.
2006-08-20 22:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Wood77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Be in full support with your inner self, which in no case will damage you.
2006-08-20 20:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by mkm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think it's not ok.because if you have sex before marriage then you will be cheating the girl who is going to be your wife.
2006-08-20 21:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is O.K. But before marriage the precaution should be taken.
2006-08-20 20:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by ~~Jeevan~~ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋