I am my brothers only brother and i am not going to be a groomsmen. Instead he is having his 2 best friends(no problem there) and his fiances 4 other brothers basically leaving me shut out in the dark. Would you be upset because i am, what should i do,
2006-08-20 20:40:18 · 10 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Generally the wedding is about the Womans side, I wouldnt be too cut up about it as you can always return the favour when you get married. Think of the money you will save and the effort of being one! Id much prefer to be a quest at the wedding. (no responsibility)
2006-08-20 20:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were You Would Be upset were/are you and your bother close if not then no. But If you were then HELL YES! Me and My Bother are Very Close When He Got married He Had His Best Friend As his Best Man No Problem Then He Did What Your Bother Did to me Mine Wanted me to be and Usher. I was really Upset. I didn't want to go to the wedding but my parents Talk to me And Finally I talk to him about we Let it all out he told me Why He Didn't Pike me I was Still Upset. But the Point is we talk it out I think you should Go to your Bother and Tell Him How You Fell Ask Him Why And Maybe You And Him Can come to some Understanding Good Luck
2006-08-21 03:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you jump to the worst conclusion, figure out why your brother would do this. Are you fighting? Do you not like his fiancee? Is there something going on that would be a reasonable excuse if you were only his friend and not his brother? Are you a flake? Does his soon-to-be-wife dislike you?
Ask him! This is a big deal and it will be carried into family gatherings such as Christmas, Thanksgiving and other family gatherings.
2006-08-21 03:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very upset .. talk to him and let him know how you feel . he may not put you in the wedding ,but at least he will know how much it hurt you that he did not . after you tell him . and he does not put you in the wedding , I would not longer talk to him .. I have only one sister she was my maid of honor ..
2006-08-21 11:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be upset and ask your brother why he'd do such a thing.
2006-08-21 03:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too right i'd be upset....especially with the fiances brothers included...have you asked WHY?....perhaps ask your parents if there is an explanation.
2006-08-21 03:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah kick him in the balls and tell him thats for not including you as his groomsmen
2006-08-21 03:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a jerk , ruin his wedding, right before the bride says " i do " scream in the church that u fuked her! then run out !
2006-08-21 03:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and get some self-esteem training to cope with put-downs, etc.
2006-08-21 03:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yall are somewhat close... yeah.
2006-08-21 03:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋