2006-08-20 20:34:59 · 25 answers · asked by labrandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes I would leave him b/c I was in similar situation. My ex-boyfriend cheated on me before I found out I was pregnant. I left him. It takes a strong woman to walk away. Would you want your son/daughter to stay in a relationship if someone cheated on them? You'll never be able to trust him again if you stay in it. But the choice is yours this is only my opinion. Good luck.
2006-08-20 20:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Soniamariet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think if he cheats on you now he will continue to cheat later. Make sure you have a plan - place to live, way to get your stuff if you live together, money, etc and walk.
If the child is his there will be an issue of visitation and support so he will still be in your life but you and your child need someone who will be there for you.
If he was cheating with not just one but two then I don't see how he can be the person you need to support you through your life or your childs life. Sorry, I know this might be hard now but I've seen it and my family has had this happen. It never seems to stop at the 2 he had. There was promises to stop and never stray again and that didn't work either. Two kids later there was a divorce and finally a man who could be everything they wanted and needed. They got married and had a child and stayed married until he died. She never regrets marrying the second man even though there was heartache and pain in the end with his death.
So I hope you find the man you want and need for both of you - and the current one doesn't seem to be him.
2006-08-20 20:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by tweetyb_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, you poor thing. This man obviously has no respect for you. So ask yourself this question. If he has no respect for you then will he have respect for your child? As much as you may not want to face the fact, he is unhappy in your marriage. I know you are worried about your child but you should get out of the marriage now while you are younger. That way you have time to move on and find somebody else who will treat you right. There are many guys out there and they wouldn't care if you were a single mother because if they really loved you they would accept this. Tell your husband how you feel and then leave. You can get through this. It will be hard but if something happens after the baby is born it will be even harder. Do you have close family or friends who could help you? Maybe you should talk to them.
2006-08-20 20:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be really horny good f***er - attractive and good looking.
Is hard to walk if you are 31 weeks pregnant. Maybe you have to
understand him /because of this situation you can't offer him any sex/ He did what he did - if he feel sorry - give him a chance is
nothing to loose. Sometimes forgiveness can be better - in this moment cost nothing.
However he is father of the child and always gonna be.
Nobody is perfect if he doesn't say: I'll marry you -I'll be good father and husband and show his love - you should walk.
I don't know how he can help you in existing situation right now
- sometimes any help is better then no help at all. You have to consider everything - for walk is never to late.
People are cheating all the time for any reason - the problem is
if they can change for good.
2006-08-20 20:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As bad as i would hate to say this if he don't care enough for you to be faithful even when your carrying his child yes you need to run honey not walk!!Before he gives you something that may affect your unborn baby and you 2,and believe me he isn't worth that.And I'm sure once you have the baby he will not stop and you don't need to raise your child around a man like him that has no morals and treats you like he does so best thing for you to do is leave save yourself a lot of heart ache hope you the best good luck!
2006-08-20 20:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him if he cared he wouldn't have been with not one but two other women no need to confront him when he comes home he will figure it out when you have packed EVERYTHING up and taken it with you. If you can't afford it then go straight to legal aide file for a legal separation change the locks of the house take it all if you forgive him NOW he will know you will always allow it and you might as well just give him the permission and say ITS OK HONEY YOU GO SLEEP WITH WHOEVER YOU WANT I WILL PLAY HOUSEKEEPER RAISE YOUR CHILD AND WAIT TILL ITS MY TURN ON THE CALENDAR TO BE WITH YOU
2006-08-20 20:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by lynx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes walk and do it as soon as you can.You
shouldn't tolorate it.I know it will be difficult raising the baby by yourself but if you give it some time you will find someone else who will
love you and who will help you with the baby.
Please don't stick around.This guy isn't confussed because he had 2 different women.
He is simply a dog.You deserve better.
2006-08-20 20:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend the type you experience! Plus each physique became into appearing like i became into completely incapable of doing something because of the fact i became into pregnant. They have been being SO overprotective yet finally, I in basic terms listened and took a relax. Get as lots relax as you may although, it feels good plus you're wearing around thetextra weight from the toddler and that is stressful. in case you experience such as you will possibly desire to then bypass forward and sparkling, do exactly no longer paintings too stressful and verify you sit down whilst your physique "tells" you to. good success & congrats!
2016-10-02 08:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave the relationship .. but no one can really answer this question for you. Because it has to come from you. Right now the most important thing is to stay healthy for the baby, trust me I know I just lost a pregnancy.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-20 20:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately! You can do it on your own as a lot of women do! You need someone else in your life that appreciates you and will be a good role model to your child. It will be difficult at first but in the long run you will sav yourself alot of pain!
2006-08-20 20:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋