2006-08-20 20:22:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the man who loves you even if you cant be with the man who loves you for whatever reason its nice to know that you are loved by someone, the man you love if youre lucky is also the man who loves you sometimes its hard to find both
2006-08-20 20:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with h d at the point that it doesn't work either way, they are all heart-breaker.
The man who loves you, but if you do not really love you, you will suffer of a lot of emptiness, disapontedness ... because you are not compatible. There will be several things you don't like about him, and as time goes by, the unpleasant feeling about these issues will increase and bother you ...
The man you love, but he does not really love you, you will feel you are always the wannabe, lonely at heart, you may even feel used and cheap when you find out sometimes that he some way fakes to make you think/believe he loves you, to keep you for being with him ... until the day he doesn't want you anymore (when he find someone more compatible ... etc ...)
So, if you are not in any "hurry", wait until you find a man who does both. You deserve that.
Good luck !
2006-08-21 11:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Juliet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two women are in a sitiutation where one is loved so much by the man she doesn't love and the other loves someone who doesn't love her, I would say that the one who is loved so much is in a better situation. Why? Because the woman who is loved is in no position to get hurt by that man but the other woman who loves that guy who doesn't loved will be hurt a lot should the man really not learn to love her at all.
The woman who is loved may fall also in love with that guy who loves her so much because chances are, she will realize his kindness, and his being a very loving and caring gentleman which really can hook women.
2006-08-21 03:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man I love
2006-08-21 03:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the man who loves you is better
2006-08-21 03:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by chica™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gad, that is such a good question! You know having been in a sticky situation, ...I don't know?? I think it's a personal desicion in the end. What kind of life do you want to live? Loving someone and hoping that in return or being loved and lost the one you trully loved? Personal choice definately! However you want to see life through.
2006-08-24 01:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to answer if you dont love him and he loves you not going to work but if you love him and he doesnt love you doesnt work either
either way its a heartbreaker but id have to say that the man i love is better because when i think about how i love him and what we do together just makes me smile
2006-08-21 03:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by crazie_for_ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say love one another equally!And your relationship would be wonderful!!Because Ive always been told and this i do believe one person cannot love enough for the both of you!!
2006-08-21 03:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefull they are both the same man. if not, i think the man you love is better because if you do not love someone even if they love you, it will not work.
2006-08-21 03:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better if you know something about making a relationship good so which ever man you get will be the last one.
study relationships
http://www.cyberparent.com/relate.htm
2006-08-21 03:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋